i'm not a gay bottom but i did let my friend hit it once and turns out i have no sensitivity, it did hurt but i was always okay with pain so it wasn't that bad. but well, ig what im trying to say is that it depends on the person, there are people that are more sensitive and there are people who aren't, it probably also has to do with how excited you are ig. i've only dated women so i thought id give dick a try but i wasn't turned on at all, i didn't even cum. it's probably not that different regardless of gender ig
is this regular homie activity??
Ohh im interested as well. I saw interview of a drag queen before where they take turns putting it in with their partner to release and cos it hurts. But also saw twinks online being open and preferring bottoming (also some redit posts)
definitely not i was pretty drunk
with the thought of "might as well" i even sucked his d and it was not fun at all my throat bothered me for days. anyways, ig its just not for me. also you should do plenty of prep apparently, which i didn't, so that might've been part of the issue? i might try again in the future if i feel like it but with proper prep, or maybe top instead. i'm not very knowledgeable and not gay so i can't really contribute much to the anal sex topic but i thought id give my two cents on the subject lol
Ahhh i see, thanks!
Hmm it really is different for many.. the thing is i too have seen men on reddit talk about how they want to be bottomed but i can’t tell if it’s just because they’re horny and want to seduce others or because they genuinely love it and want the feeling because they don’t talk much about the latter
sorry about the bad experience dude throat pain fucking sucks.. but yh toughijg it out with no prep is such a flex omg how good is your endurance lol ?!?!
it wasn't zero prep because there was plenty of (boring) foreplay + i did clean in the bathroom before, but i heard some people take a looong time until it starts feeling good but i was not THAT curious lol it's just too much work for me frankly, respect to all bottoms out there
Ahhh okay fair enough! Good luck if you ever try again
to gay bottoms out there does it even feel as good as they portray it in yaoi? or does it hurt more like im getting confused bc i keep seeing videos where they complain about it hurting then make other posts about bottoming willingly bc im finding it hard to believe so many ppl would take part in an activity that generally feels more painful than pleasant