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At least in the other one, one of them isn't a minor. Obviously dating an underaged boy at 20 is weird
The most important thing is persons capacity to understand relationships, sex and it shouldnt involve grooming. In that case, if its slowburn with no grooming, 16 x 20 can work. And if 35 ıs taking advantage of 20's naievety, thats grooming and isnt acceptable.
16 and 20…4 years gaps. But because he’s a minor…it’s unacceptable.
Meanwhile, me reading a 20 and 35 year old BL with no issues…
I feel guilty.