I totally agree with you! That's why I could never hate Suah's actions. He himself suffered too. He wa so ready and excited to be Juhyeok's omega wife only to represent as an alpha and a hyper-dominant at that. They both have lost the identity they thought they'll be. They were both struggling. It wasn't that Suah was happy Juhyeok manifested as an omega, he was happy they still can be together even if it's the other way around. Yes, his actions can be considered toxic but what do you actually expect in an omegaverse? Their secondary gender's trait will show up one way or another. At least Suah is learning that if he doesn't control his alpha traits he would only end up hurting Juhyeok. The character design and development in this story is commendable! I appreciate the author so much for this. I can't wait for season 2!

"Su-Ah presenting as an Alpha was an identity crisis no less serious than Juhyeok's" cause I think in the story it felt kinda overlooked just how upsetting that must have been for Su-Ah that he was so scared of being rejected by Juhyeok he SOBBED when he found out he wasn't an omega. And then Juh-Yeok DID reject him and went from doting/looking after him to immediately hitting him & being mean. It doesn't at all justify how creepy Su-ah got later... but Juh-yeok was so mean immediately and it must have been so traumatic for Su-Ah too.