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I'm curious, does the concept of Top and bottom exist in wlw relationship in real life?

Serve September 6, 2026 7:42 am

I'm curious, does the concept of Top and bottom exist in wlw relationship in real life?

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    sunnyfunnyrunnybunny September 6, 2026 7:48 am

    Ofc, I think it’s called tachi and neko

    sunnyfunnyrunnybunny September 6, 2026 7:48 am
    Ofc, I think it’s called tachi and neko sunnyfunnyrunnybunny

    oh shat I read your question wrong, those terms apply for manga but yes ofc they exist irl

    Mr Rover September 6, 2026 7:51 am

    i guess only "pillow princesses" and "stone tops" are the ones which i can think of as the uke/seme equivalent.

    Serve September 6, 2026 8:03 am
    oh shat I read your question wrong, those terms apply for manga but yes ofc they exist irl sunnyfunnyrunnybunny

    Good to know

    Serve September 6, 2026 8:03 am
    i guess only "pillow princesses" and "stone tops" are the ones which i can think of as the uke/seme equivalent. Mr Rover

    Oh damn

    lesbian cupid September 6, 2026 8:22 am

    yeah I’m personally a top I think that set roles are a bit more common in sapphic relationships than most would think

    Karebi September 6, 2026 8:43 am

    Ye, but it depends more in your personality and ofc in sexual preferences too, but mostly (the ones i had at least) perform their role depending on which one is more active in bed, the one that takes the lead, but not always cz they can explain and expect you to do how they say or its just a one night thing. Its different when you use the belt, the roles are easily differenciate, there are girls that prefer only to use the belt, only to recieve or being both.

    The line between top and bottom for lesbians is way more neutral than what most of people think just by judging their appearance, people usually think that the butch ones are the "tops" when they most likely are not so brave in bed

    Idk man both can be bottoms or tops while having sex without having to change positions like men do. It can change every time. Depends on the day, wether they have the humor or not to be one or the other, and also on how the sex goes, js let it flow(but sure there are ones that are only one by rule)

    Serve September 6, 2026 9:15 am
    yeah I’m personally a top I think that set roles are a bit more common in sapphic relationships than most would think lesbian cupid

    Yeah Because in manhwas unless it's toxic yuri, I have never seen a labelled top and bottom, so I was wondering irl these titles are really given or not

    Serve September 6, 2026 9:17 am
    Ye, but it depends more in your personality and ofc in sexual preferences too, but mostly (the ones i had at least) perform their role depending on which one is more active in bed, the one that takes the lead, ... Karebi

    That makes total sense! I mean unless there is a an actual rule agreed between both parties, i wondered how it actually goes...ty for letting me know!