I understand what I saying but as a novel reader of this manhwa I would say it's not MC fault as he is normal person and have many failed relationship ML some action he finds irritating which valid as he goes for business trip within a or 2 days after back from honeymoon and they don't develops much emotional bonding at that moment but don't worry soon MC find out ML's problem and handle him in the way u saying (≧∀≦)
I think my problem is i already read a few similar type of plot like this. Its not that i dont understand or hate mc, but the writing is the issue for me. I need character like mc to grow, but instead, its 'ml is who has to learn to be better' is the problem for me. And i wont be surprised if ml chase after and apologise thousand times to mc. Ml is the responsible and serious one, unlike mc who is insecure and sleep around. He accepted marriage cause he didnt want to lose 'hot rich alpha with good sex'. And then he gets upset when he learns ml only married because its efficient or whatever. As if it isnt the point of marriage, which he told him. Though, even in that case, ml probably always loved mc. You see my point? In this story, its always ml the one who loves a lot, who makes effort. I feel bad for ml. He is just awkward guy who tries his best and this is how he is treated. Its used as 'comedic relief' for story to progress and mc is 'normal one' for snapping at ml. Btw i dont think its bad story, i just wanted to express my thoughts. And i wish their love and efforts were more equal ^^.
completely agree idek if it was the authors intention to make the ml neurodivergent, but it sort of bothers me the way mc acts towards ml when he’s frustrated the ml still tries his best to cater to him and learn everything about how to be a good partner. i really hope mc will try to understand ml the same way sigh
Except that the ML explaining it was more efficient doesn't equal expressing emotions of love like you say. I love the ML but he is very awkward so I understand the MC's reactions.
Ml literally made interview with mc about family and stuff. Of course, he chose mc for being 'fitting partner'. (Though i am sure he fell at first sifht but thats not the point). Thats literally what marriage is. Mcs reaction is consistent in a way he never understand ml but that doesnt mean that its reasonable. Again, his feelings arent my issue. My issue is how he express thise feelings and how he treats ml time to time.
Yeah I understand what are you saying and I kinda agree with u at at some point it's ML who puts more effort in their relationship and try hard to improve himself for his husband, if MC do same it's looks more good to see...
Except he never expanded on that so that's why I was explicitly saying that I understand his reactions.
Including how he responds to them. I do say this as someone on the autistic spectrum btw.
He doesnt need to is my point. Marriage is partnership contract. You choose people who fit you. Mc doesnt need to be smart to figure out he was chosen for being 'fitting partner'. Its more unreasonable for you to expect him to be choose him for love. Especially when mc mainly chose ml because he was good at sex.
All i am asking is equal effort and love . Like, i get it. He has 'bad relationships' or money issues but its not mls fault. He couldve said no or i need more time but he didnt. Why? Because he find himself a 'golden opportunity' so he didnt want to lose. 'Even if i cant make it work, at least it was good sex' is literally how he looked at this relationship. And then he is keep getting mad because ml is not 'loving him in normal way', even though ml is trying his best. And thats fcking sad.
Also people, this isnt hate post. I actually like smart pretty bottoms. I just wrote my frustration. Kinda wish he loved ml more the way ml does is all. This drama would be more enjoyable that way. So chill. No need to argue this much.
Maybe its just me while i understand mcs feelings, it really bothers me sometimes the way he treated ml. We get it, ml loves mc, thats cute etc etc. But whats the point if its not the same effort from mcs side? Idk maybe because i usually get along with autistic people easiely, it really bothers me how he snaps at ml. People like ml need people who will treat them better. Of course, this isnt bad relationship. But its like, ml is hift from heaven. Rich, hot, good sex, good person, always treats him well. His only flaw is him being bad at expression which it isnt his fault and he tries to get better. On other hand, mc already has experience with sex, get offended by money issues, or how ml behaves the way who he is. Like, its annoying. He is your hubby. You chose to marry him, the least you could do is treating him better. Idk man. I dont think he is 'that' taking this relationship seriously the way ml is and he doesnt treasure him enough and that annoys me. But art is really good, plot is kinda mid because you can kinda predict how it will develop. Mc is really good looking type who has brain so thats a big bonus. But i really hate when characters treat their partners like dildo or hole or whatever. Its disgusting. I really hope mc learns to treat his hubby better. Its already hard enough to find green flag top, at least they should be treasured. Same with bottoms but thats another story.