Going through the omegaverse tag for what I've already read that might fit the bill rn (sorry if they end up being a lil ambiguous in the consent department, with heats and shit sometimes it's hard to tell and I've also read these a while back), and keep in mind that since a LOT of these are manga they are short as hell
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/ou_sama_to_puppy_love/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/omae_no_koi_wa_ore_no_mono/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kedamono_arashi/ (and it's sequels)
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/non_refundable_alpha/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/turning/ (a/b/o takes a backseat)
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/private_call_yaoi/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/samurai_omega_to_akutoku_shachou/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/shinnyuu_shain_no_omega_desu_ga_senpai_alpha_kaizoushimasu/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kowamote_no_rinjin_ga_datta_toki_no_taishohou/
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/dash_team_hazama/
Realising rn that I don't read that much omegaverse lmao sorry for the lack of AxA I've still got so much to learn
Kiss me if you can
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kiss_me_if_you_can/
It actually has focus on consent for both main characters, I would recommend the series as a whole (kiss me liar and desire me if you can, but they do have scenes where the line of consent is blurred-non existent)
Also!
Omega complex
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/omega_complex_1/
Alpha trauma
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/alpha_trauma/
And as far as I remember
Dog and bird
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/dog_and_bird/

Does anyone have omegaverse BL Thats DOESNT condone rape? And yes “psychological” does in fact count.
I’ve read Define the relationship(personal fav) and I’m tots okay for slow burn.
I would prefer an omega not to look like a child. It’s okay if their skinny just not the “big eyes and childish”
If you have alpha X alpha hell yeah!!
Toxicity is fine as long as they are BOTH EQUALLY toxic.