Honey tbh theres nothing we could say that will make your situation gets better, but, be proud of yourself for not giving up and being able to be there for your family even when your are not okay.
My family suffers with money too, and I am in a shitty job for about 6 years now, i gain so little but work so hard. Reading helps me too, to forget a little about my problems.
I am happy that you opned yourself up. And i am just answering here in case no one responds... hope you situation gets better sis
First, you need to make real friends that you can talk to about this - it’s hard making friends but you need a support system that isn’t on this website. Second, if you’re going to college, meet with an advisor who can guide you on the steps to take to improve your situation - or speak to a social worker (if you’re in the us). Third, I know this is such a overdone peace of advice, but you really need to have a positive change of mindset. Yes yes I know you may feel like nothing can be done, but less than nothing will be done if you have a negative mindset that’s always keeping you down. Fourth, another cliche stoic men always say, don’t stress- have faith that you will find a way out of your situation no matter how shitty.
Rooting for you to change your life
Wow insightful
Hey this is totally unrelated but lately my family has been struggling financially for a long time since the moment I could speak. I’ve never been privileged or had things I wanted and I know I sound selfish for saying this but I hate how I’m living right now. My parents are scared that there going to kick us out are house, and I’m also angry at myself for not trying harder. I work part time while going to school I sleep a max of 4 hours everyday. I feel so exhausted and our financial situation is putting my family and I in a hardship. Mentally we’re all struggling with our own battles, my mom got diagnosed with type 2 diabetes and my dad lost his job, and I have two younger siblings who they need to feed. It’s just gotten to the point I’m that desperate, I’ve sold half my clothes and tried finding way to earn money doing side gigs. But it’s not enough. :( what do I do?, should I join the army or what can I do to help my family. Sorry for ranting about my life situation I know other people are struggling right now but I have no one to talk to about anything. I’m a loner and reading makes me feel better that I get to escape from my harsh reality;(.