he literally was crashing out for months and started a worldwide search for yujin against yujins will, lying and manipulating everyone around him to get what he wants. that coupled with the fact that, like you said, he IS toxic, manipulative, and obsessive why would he suddenly draw the line at being a law abiding citizen? this isn’t THAT shocking of a turn of his character. like any sane person aluld acknowledge yujins autonomy to leave, aaron didn’t.
Because the law abiding thing directly impacts Yujin He has done other things that go against the law but not this.
He went insane when Yujin left him and yes he tried to bring him back against his will but up until now he has prioritised Yujin's safety and comfort. I'm pretty sure he wanted to lock him up and keep him all to himself even before that but he didn't, cuz he cared for Yujin's feelings on some degree. But now it all gets thrown away and he doesn't give a shit and only wants to satisfy his own desires.
You's think a whole year would be enough for him to come up with something more logical to convince Yujin to not leave him again. Kidnapping and chaining him up kinda makes sense but the rape part doesn't. It only shows that he's stupid if he really thinks that will dissuade Yujin from leaving again
100% everything he is doing is self destructive, and I never said it’s actions weren’t stupid. But he has always done what he wants. He was only giving Yujin so much grace before because he geniuenly didn’t expect or foresee the chance that Yujin could leave him. But since the very beginning he’s done as he pleases. Reread the first chapters the story literally began with him pushing for Yujin to pursue singing despite Yujin’s resistance. The story literally began with him fulfilling his own desires. That’s literally the most consistent part of his character.
”kidnapping and chaining him makes sense but rape doesn’t” are we so fucking serious? He’s not doing this to convince Yujin of anything he’s made that clear. You’re saying it’s a shocking change of character for Aaron to not ask for consent for sex but no it’s totally fine that he’s CHAINING AND KIDNAPPING A GUY??? Like yes that’s totally consensual. 100% and legal too!!!
I meant that kidnapping and chaining him up makes sense cuz that's keeping Yujin close to him but the rape doesn't cuz that adds nothing and is not dissuading Yujin in any way, its only making the situation worse.
I still won't be judging ppl who are surprised by his actions cuz even knowing everything he's done up until now, he still seemed like he was doing it all for Yujin, because he genuinely likes him and wants to be close but this bs is proving the complete opposite. If you like somebody you should want them to be happy. How is raping them keeping them happy?? And the chaining up will only make sense for a few chapters maybe but more than that would just further prove he only cares about himself
I understand not liking Aaron’s actions but I don’t thinking it’s out of character. Aaron’s clearly not thinking straight and nothing he’s doing is presented as something that’s a healthy sane strategy. You’re trying to apply logical sane decision making to a guy who is KIDNAPPING and CHAINING people up. That’s not normal person behaviour so you can’t expect normal person thought processes. I really don’t understand how you think that kidnapping and chaining someone up “make sense” considering how that isn’t going to make someone happy either. Rape is literally defined by a lack of consent and so is kidnapping so for Aaron to do one and the other is plausible.
+ also “Chaining up will only make sense for a few chapters but more will prove that he only cares for himself.” DOING THAT IN THE FIRST PLACE is inherently selfish! Like what? If he truly wanted to make him happy he could just talk to him, like a regular person. But he isn’t one. Your trying to take a moral high ground in a fictional story but your own worldviews of what’s sane is like, literally unhinged??
I think a lot of people are just being performative in their outrage. I find it weird they draw the line at rape and not the kidnapping, manipulation, lying, and stalking. I thought most readers were like me in the sense that they can acknowledge the darker themes but still read as it is a fictional story. Like if they don’t like to read any dark stuff that’s fine, but then you don’t like Flashlight because that’s been the whole manwha.
Omg you ppl are ridiculous how can you say readers are performative for calling out rape?? Kidnapping and manipulating and all that toxic stuff is illegal but we do understand that it's fictional which us why there's usually no problem with that but i do draw the line at rape cuz unfortunately its being normalised and romanticised in too many stories nowadays.
A ML being toxic is not the same as being a rapist that is literally a crime how is that not clocking to y'all?? Yes I'll still keep calling it out cuz there are many other ways to depict an unhealthy relationship in a Yaoi without resulting to rape and ig that's too grand of a concept for this author and many others.
Some ppl pay for this so the least these authors could do is put some triggers warnings or sum to let the readers know what to expect. This is straight up disgusting idk how y'all can tolerate that
People are allowed not like it that’s valid my whole point is the fact that this is not a random change of character or story.
KIDNAPPING is literally also being fetished? Like what? At least I can acknowledge that all of this ethically wrong, your arguing that someone kidnapping and chaining someone up is somehow a forgiveable offense? It seems like you desensitised if you are unable to see that. Rape is wrong because it’s a violate of someone’s autonomy, which is the same as stalking and kidnapping. How can you be furious that people can “tolerate” this when you yourself say that people can seperate fiction from reality. And I never said being toxic is the same as rape. I said that rape is a byproduct of toxicity.
Like tell me, why do you think people can seperate kidnapping from fiction but not rape? Both are fetishised. Both are an illegal. Both are violation of someone’s autonomy and right to consent. Both are wrong. What’s different? You are in constant contradiction with yourself. If you find it different and you can’t handle one theme over the other, that’s fine, but then you drop the series, not hate on it.
Rape is a much more common real life event that happens to many ppl while kidnapping n stuff, while it does happen, is a lot more rare so not as much a reflection of real life. They are not on the same level and their depiction in media doesn't result in the same consequences. Murder, kidnapping and stalking is bad but everybody knows that cuz its shown as a bad thing but obviously normalising rape is a lot worse duh
Kidnapping is literally romanticised so often. Kidnapping does happen. Something being more common doesn’t make it less of a bad thing. You are so out of touch it’s insane. You can’t even see it as bad so you are literally the example of desensitisation. You aren’t even acknowledging it’s bad but looking past it you are actively trying to justify kidnapping saying that it “make sense” and would “be okay for a little bit”. I never made excuses justifying rape. you don’t see kidnapping as bad because YOU are the type of person who has had it normalised. You can’t seperate fiction from reality and it has affected how you see the real world.

aaron’s BEEN moving crazy from the start and was NOT even remotely a green flag so idk why everyone is so suprised. like OBVIOUSLY this isn’t ethically right but so has none of his actions before this so why is there suddenly a line drawn now? he’s literally been saying he’s gonna do ts?? like you guys got this far? either everyone was in mad denial since chapter 1 or I’m alone in this.
like oscar award winning renowned actor Aaron got y’all fooled too cos what