I firmly believe that not everyone deserves to be in a healthy relationship. Like, a good person shouldn't have to suffer just to deal with a bad person, unless they willingly choose to be in that position. And in this case, both of them are terrible. Of course, that doesn't mean they're beyond fixing. But it also doesn't mean they necessarily have to fix their problems. Because in my opinion, if you're a bad person, you might truly deserve another bad person to be with you.
(I definitely wasn't projecting because deep down I believe I'm a bad person and I deserve to be treated badly. Nu uh.)
I firmly believe that not everyone deserves to be in a healthy relationship. Like, a good person shouldn't have to suffer just to deal with a bad person, unless they willingly choose to be in that position. And in this case, both of them are terrible. Of course, that doesn't mean they're beyond fixing. But it also doesn't mean they necessarily have to fix their problems. Because in my opinion, if you're a bad person, you might truly deserve another bad person to be with you.
(I definitely wasn't projecting because deep down I believe I'm a bad person and I deserve to be treated badly. Nu uh.)