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Do I really have no life?

Khadija September 24, 2026 5:21 pm

This is just a 3 am thought but I'm in college 1st year now and there's so much I need to study but I'm not..it's like I've become a sloth I sleep all day doomscroll and I do have friends and I socialize it's just in home I just either doomscroll on TikTok and insta or just sleep I'm tired too idk what should I do

Responses
    Miss Misty September 24, 2026 5:33 pm

    If you found any solution tell me too cause I'm like this even in my 3rd year . (I'm supposed to study like a fucking maniac idk why I can't) ╥﹏╥

    Sky September 24, 2026 5:35 pm

    If you really really need to change, it starts with discipline. My advice won't be done if you don't have desperation to change your life into something greater like acing classes or taking break from algorithm will make your brain happy for you. Ik you got this, just don't spend time on your phone that much babe, please

    tzking September 24, 2026 5:50 pm

    It happened to me too. I even visited a doctor. He gave me some vitamins supplement. And then I joined some co curriculum activities, learnt german and perticipated in some certificates earning courses. That helped.

    Angel September 24, 2026 6:04 pm

    don't do your work in your room/dorm. Trust you won't feel like doing anything, you should do them in the library, or a cafe. When people are around me it makes me wanna lock in. Start little by little, slowly add it to your routine, and it will feel like normal.

    Khadija September 25, 2026 1:36 am
    If you really really need to change, it starts with discipline. My advice won't be done if you don't have desperation to change your life into something greater like acing classes or taking break from algorithm... Sky

    The thing is I wanna do better but the second I hear my mom nagging I just wanna quit everything

    Khadija September 25, 2026 1:37 am
    don't do your work in your room/dorm. Trust you won't feel like doing anything, you should do them in the library, or a cafe. When people are around me it makes me wanna lock in. Start little by little, slowly ... Angel

    I feel like my parents are partly at fault cause they just nag me all the time and try to take my phone away and don't even let me go anywhere

    tzking September 25, 2026 5:00 am
    I feel like my parents are partly at fault cause they just nag me all the time and try to take my phone away and don't even let me go anywhere Khadija

    You know it's easier to blame your parents than put effort in changing your life

    Sky September 25, 2026 3:50 pm
    I feel like my parents are partly at fault cause they just nag me all the time and try to take my phone away and don't even let me go anywhere Khadija

    college first year and your parents still takes away your gadgets? aren't you old enough to be fucking yourself oh nahh broo, but I'll take ur side. I don't wanna assume ur just lazy or your parents are doing that for the best for you. Just focus , " Discipline" If you somewhat hear that nagging again, maybe, try to not let the mistake that cause that nagging happen. But if the nagging comes out of nowhere, it may be intentional, the best of best to do there is to be understanding while doing parttime job behind you, save money to leave the house man. Be understanding while you're there, because they feed you, give a roof under your head, that nagging, whether its positive or negative words, be strong. Ik you'll walk on the straight path from there on.