It became a popular tropes cuz readers keep jerking their shit to it and eating it up so annoying. It feels homophobic what's so humiliating about being a male bottom? what's so humiliating about being submissive? What's so humiliating about being both? Authors never say anything interesting just rape rape rape
Right?? Like are y'all hearing yourself this man literally sexually assaulted someone and is going behind the same victim to manipulate him with no fucking shame and y'all are asking if he's getting bottomed rough bring back shame man normalize getting shit on for being a fucking weirdo. And omg what's with this stupid dumbass next to me calling pegging misogynistic
U got a point, but hear me out:
First, misogyny is everywhere (just different in scale).
Second, it's sacrificing to be the bottom. All the cleaning and dieting is exhausting. Not to mention, u can develop health problems from it.
Third, it's HIM being the receiving end that makes it humiliating cause MOST rapists are the ones who do the penetrating because they want to feel "dominant", and he is exactly that type of rapist. It would crush his ego and that ignorant personality. I do think it's a fucked up revenge tho

Yaoi fans really think becoming a submissive bottom is the redemption journey for a rapist because being at the receiving end is just SOOO humiliating isn't it? Y'all need to look into yourselfs cuz this is getting weird