SPOILER
After the rape scene, when taeui wakes up the next day Ilay says that Taeui should never try to run away a third time or else he might really eat him whole, Taeui says i never tried to run i was omw to you and Ilay just looks at him weirdly and moves on. Not sure if that what you want to hear. Atleast after this Taeui does become more cautious of ilay so its not like this didnt completely effect him but they dont really talk it out like that.
In both DASIM and in SUITE their relationship is wayyyy better than in Passion. In Dasim we get to see how they are in their actual relationship and daily lives with a few unhinged stuff happening here and there but last i remember i dont think any rape happens between them in that story. In SUITE they are very domesticated and as a bonus ilay feels more fear towards losing Taeui and him getting hurt due to something that happens in Dasim. Its really cute! But Complete works is my absolute favorite because ilay is a “what he says goes” type of guy and its so interesting to me!
Suit (passion side and completed works and Holy passion) is one of my fav,,in suit their relationship is more like married couple,, where Ilay is a scardly husband to loose his husband(Tae),,and Tae is the calm husband who reassures Ilay that nothing will happen to him..You know the funny thing is that Tae swore to himself and Ilay that he will probably live his life if Ilay die before him,,but surprising Tae was devastated ( i am not spoiling much,,it's in Holy passion,,go read it,,sweetie,,you'll love it )

Question for novel readers, ik Ilay will never apologize for this shit but will he at least ever hear taeui’s explanation and will the two ever talk it out