The charity thing is just Xinlu being Xinlu, not understanding why he desires Yuri so much, so he needed an excuse to touch Yuri. Remember that according to Xinlu, he doesn't really care much about sex, and sees it as a charity work, because it requires him servicing someone, which is something he dislikes since he is born with silver spoon. People spoil and suck up to him all his life. This is why he originally thought he was doing a favor for Yuri, but as we can see at the preceding chapters, Xinlu had to literally beg Yuri to touch him.
thing is why does being enemies justify raping the dude? especially when if i remember correctly the mc didnt do anything bad to zhenya both zhenya, ilay and that other blond dude that shot that one mc 3 times for running away, THEY ALL PISS ME OFFFFFFF good god like i get possessiveness being a toxic ml trait but there’s a limit, there SHOULD BE a limit
I'm not tryna justify Zhenya I just think Ilay is worse than him (and really hate him).
Like atleast there's plot justification for what's happened in CNA (taekjoo infiltred the country to steal weapons for the worlds strongest weapon). But the recent Passion chapter is just "he misunderstood him but he loves him so much so he cant help but kidnap and rape him" (AND THEN BTW this is the thing that gets Ilay and Taeui officially together. Brutal rape. It drives me insane to think about how unsatisfying Passion's novel was to read, even if Ilay gets "better" in the other novels, the ending of Passion soured Iltae for me for a long time)
More importantly, I am less harsh on Zhenya because Taekjoo ends up with so much more agency in the relationship than Taeui.
The starting is the same, where both mcs are raped (I gen hate this trope). Personally I hate both of them a lot I get why you hate Ilay more though, I guess your view on zhenya is that he’s kinda like the ml from “low tide in twilight”(?) but omfg I seriously cant stand the other blond assholes why do the mcs never succeed in running away UR CI IAEGOW whatever there’s a reason i dropped both manhwas

2 sides of passion is do flipping wild...one so toxic brutal (I cant see any love)that I'll never pick up again the or read it fully for my life meanwhile this one soo much emotion bonding communication i cant help but feel butterflies n giggle... I didn't like the charity thing he said but other than that all this I cant help but love them