But I still feel bad for both Cheolmin and his Dad. It seems his Dad has been absent for a lot of his life (not on purpose, of course) and now he's trying to build a relationship. I bet Cheolmin has a large part of him that is a) use to the absence and b) hurt by it and is pushing his Dad away because of it (consciously or subconsciously). Which of course is now going to hurt his Dad in return. Along the lines of "you were never here before, why are you trying to be here now".
But I still feel bad for both Cheolmin and his Dad. It seems his Dad has been absent for a lot of his life (not on purpose, of course) and now he's trying to build a relationship. I bet Cheolmin has a large part of him that is a) use to the absence and b) hurt by it and is pushing his Dad away because of it (consciously or subconsciously). Which of course is now going to hurt his Dad in return.
Along the lines of "you were never here before, why are you trying to be here now".