Either way Uke was so out of it how much do u think with your dick to not see it . Truth be told may be a himbo might even atleast say yoo your not chippy today whats with you thsi ain't fun...more so than whatver just happened...over all this are still things by the allowance of Uke that can be made up for with enough yearn un the future.
Youre right tbh. I think the thing is with the ML is that he's so self-absorbed bc he's so used to the whole world revolving around him since he was a kid that he doesn't even pause to consider how the other person might be feeling. But this kind of character trait CAN be redeemed depending on the author's execution like you said if the yearning is convincing enough, so it's currently up in the air rn im not super hopeful tho bc not many authors can convey this part well

To be fair to the ML, he probably couldn't tell that the MC is clearly having a traumatic response to the fire alarm (I bet his dad probably died in a fire) so he's trying to be normal about it even tho he's clearly struggling, and the ML doesn't know and isnt picking up on the clues bc he's a himbo. Him letting the MC throw up in his hands without making a fuss over it shows he does care in his own way tho, he's just not aware of what's going on with the MC bc to him a false fire alarm isn't a big deal