You seem to be forgetting that they're boundryline adults.They had little to no knowledge about sex because, in that era sexual education wasn't accessible to everyone, especially women and ordinary people. Only the privileged had access to that kind of knowledge. If you had no phone, no proper sex education, and were experiencing all of this for the first time, you might have reacted similarly. They're also going through puberty, so obviously their hormones and emotions are going to affect their judgment. I'm not saying they're blameless, but at least consider their age and circumstances before being so harsh on them.

I really hate the trope when someone's sexual desire is awakened and they just get horny beside them self for anyone. Like wdym you're blushing at your adoptive/step dad's (who you despise with all your being) dih, and wdym you're jerking off a dude you barely know and wanting him to suck you off OUT IN THE OPEN WITH THE KINGS GUARDS LOOKING FOR YOU just because you guys had to be in close proximity for a few seconds. NEITHER of them should have been horny in that situation, clearly they aren't taking their predicaments seriously enough and it kinda just ruins the plot for me. Clearly the stakes aren't high enough if you have the ability to think about and indulge in exhibitionism while your life, your family's life, and the entire kingdom's life is on the line. I don't even care about the sex I just want SOMETHING to happen. ALSO wdym the literal god of love can't make a man fall in love with him without sneaking into his room while he sleeps and violating him? I hate hate hate when plots have potential but the author cares more about objectifying the MC than furthering the story in a sensible manner. I really liked the mythology aspect I thought it was really well done in the beginning, but this is just pissing me off