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My eighteen year old sister passed last night. How do I grapple with this pain?

Hokuto October 12, 2026 1:40 pm

My sister, she's eighteen seemingly passed away from COVID. She refused medicine because she was scared of pain. She refused the hospital because she was scared.

She was my best friend. My everything. I know typically this site is for other things. But I need help. I'm so scared. What should I do?

Responses
    Keith October 12, 2026 1:45 pm

    Connect with nature. Go to the park or somewhere with people. Grieving in silence will just make it worse imo.
    Have somebody to talk with, and communicate with others, it's better than being alone.
    And, sorry for your loss.

    Hokuto October 12, 2026 1:45 pm

    I seriously feel like I've lost everything dear to me. I feel so empty. And I just want to see her again.

    Uehuighie October 12, 2026 1:55 pm

    Don’t rush trying to get over it, cry, be mad, allow yourself to feel. Do small comforting stuff for yourself like going outside and speak and share memorises with family and people who are also grieving. There’s a few numbers whcih you can call whcih can give you more advice

    Hokuto October 12, 2026 1:56 pm
    Don’t rush trying to get over it, cry, be mad, allow yourself to feel. Do small comforting stuff for yourself like going outside and speak and share memorises with family and people who are also grieving. The... Uehuighie

    Thank you. I think I'll try that. Thank you very much.