Maybe its my empathy, maybe its because im fucked up or.maybe its because of the way I grew up but to me thats what love does. I'm not excusing the seme though but I seriously think that this is his first time in love and he doesn't know what to do with his feelings or maybe he just wants to control the uke idk.
My love, that's not love. It control. When you love someone you love everything about them, you don't make/use loving them as a weapon to manipulate, control. To love is to live but love is to never be weaponized, because that takes away the actual meaning of love.
Even the uke too, he does not have enough self respect to leave. See how he was treated as a child, he doesn't know thr meaning of love and was never taught how to love because he never truly received one. So he thinks what the seme is giving him is the only type of love he would ever receive is the reason why he's staying.
He also does not have enough self-esteem to see that the seme just wants to be in control of his life and is disguising it as love which is wrong.
The first step to love is the realization and he does not realize nothing, he's only accepting what he's given

I love what a dumb slut the uke is. It makes it easier for the seme to manipulate and rape him