This manhwa is showcasing multiple kinds of rape. It’s shocking how so many people only view violence as rape but nothing else. If you’re not ENTHUSIASTICALLY agreeing to sex, it’s a no. Look I’m enjoying this story as much as the next degenerate but these replies are concerning. I’m worried about this happening to you or you doing this to someone else.
Before you comment your OPINIONS look up sexual coercion so you have the FACTS.
Ted talk time, FACTS OVER FEELINGS
FACT: “I’ll give you a job/money if you have sex with me.” Explicitly or implicitly stated Is quid pro quo which is coercion. Which is rape.
FEELINGS: but it’s also a ‘deal’! you can choose not to. No one’s holding a gun to your head!
FACT: what if you’re homeless, need to pay rent, need medicine, food, to take care of your kids or elderly parents? Using people’s need for survival/protection/safety to have sex with them is coercion. Which is? Repeat after me: Rape. There are no “deals”, outside of sex work where the worker actually wants to do it, that ever justify someone demanding sex as payment.
In this case: FACT: “I’ll tell you where your mom is if you have sex with me.” When your mother is lost in a dangerous place where time is of the essence and she may already be dead? Blackmail. Which is coercion.
After being raped by the two previous monsters, yeah this seems like a good enough deal. You’ve already been put through the worst. What is one more time to save your mom’s life? It’s still a level of coercion which is rape.
Other forms of rape that are insidious and happen all the time people don’t even think is rape:
Having sex to placate your partner because every time you say no they get mad, upset, whine, sulk for days, etc. Emotional manipulation: Coercion. Asking over and over and over despite a “no” till it turns into a “yes”. Wearing them down: Coercion. Demanding sex because you’re owed it due to your relationship. Coercion. The other person is not sober. Rape even if they said yes. You cannot consent when you’re terribly intoxicated just like a child cannot consent to sex with an adult even if they’re lucid.
All to say, not all rape is physically violent. It can occur through psychological and emotional manipulation. Which is why “psychological and emotional abuse” exist and can be charged in the court of law.
I do not want YOU to go through this and think it’s fine or normal. I want YOU to be safe even if this post is unpopular.
This manhwa is showcasing multiple kinds of rape. It’s shocking how so many people only view violence as rape but nothing else. If you’re not ENTHUSIASTICALLY agreeing to sex, it’s a no. Look I’m enjoying this story as much as the next degenerate but these replies are concerning. I’m worried about this happening to you or you doing this to someone else.
Before you comment your OPINIONS look up sexual coercion so you have the FACTS.
Ted talk time, FACTS OVER FEELINGS
FACT: “I’ll give you a job/money if you have sex with me.” Explicitly or implicitly stated Is quid pro quo which is coercion. Which is rape.
FEELINGS: but it’s also a ‘deal’! you can choose not to. No one’s holding a gun to your head!
FACT: what if you’re homeless, need to pay rent, need medicine, food, to take care of your kids or elderly parents? Using people’s need for survival/protection/safety to have sex with them is coercion. Which is? Repeat after me: Rape. There are no “deals”, outside of sex work where the worker actually wants to do it, that ever justify someone demanding sex as payment.
In this case:
FACT: “I’ll tell you where your mom is if you have sex with me.” When your mother is lost in a dangerous place where time is of the essence and she may already be dead? Blackmail. Which is coercion.
After being raped by the two previous monsters, yeah this seems like a good enough deal. You’ve already been put through the worst. What is one more time to save your mom’s life? It’s still a level of coercion which is rape.
Other forms of rape that are insidious and happen all the time people don’t even think is rape:
Having sex to placate your partner because every time you say no they get mad, upset, whine, sulk for days, etc. Emotional manipulation: Coercion.
Asking over and over and over despite a “no” till it turns into a “yes”. Wearing them down: Coercion.
Demanding sex because you’re owed it due to your relationship. Coercion.
The other person is not sober. Rape even if they said yes. You cannot consent when you’re terribly intoxicated just like a child cannot consent to sex with an adult even if they’re lucid.
All to say, not all rape is physically violent. It can occur through psychological and emotional manipulation. Which is why “psychological and emotional abuse” exist and can be charged in the court of law.
I do not want YOU to go through this and think it’s fine or normal. I want YOU to be safe even if this post is unpopular.