Thinking of all the "wholesome" or "romantic" stories with pushy af MLs, and the authors who butcher them. It's not that hard to write a character who, shocker!, stops right before sex as to check in on his sex partner, who cares about his sobriety and ability to consent after they've drunk, AND doesn't sulk about stopping in the middle of sex, try to force him, or just does whatever he wants. It can be done!
Thinking of all the "wholesome" or "romantic" stories with pushy af MLs, and the authors who butcher them. It's not that hard to write a character who, shocker!, stops right before sex as to check in on his sex partner, who cares about his sobriety and ability to consent after they've drunk, AND doesn't sulk about stopping in the middle of sex, try to force him, or just does whatever he wants. It can be done!