Aaaaah !! I see !!! :-D _ well , sarcasm and irony are easier to catch in real life , with the communication cues and all! Lol. I am not good at spotting sarcasm in real life. Probably because it's one of my major principle to always say exactly what i mean.
(And not say the opposite ... Sadly i had a friend once upon a time, who was basing her sense of humour solely on saying the opposite of what she meant ... And one day that backfired completely as i burst of laughing thinking she was making a joke but she was dead serious with her usual poker face.... :-( we have not been talking since then :-(
Anyway, i am glad to know i am not the only one who thinks nevrotic adults who only think about sex are not supposed to raise a baby together

A child will fix this marriage