That's not entirely true. Maya is spending a lot of time with Ruku chan who has been very dismissive of Maya and Nemegusa's relationship. I agree that his own past mistakes and present insecurity fed into it until he's blown it out of proportion. But even I would feel some kind of way if my partner admired and spent a lot of time with someone who spoke so condescendingly about us and our connection. Remember that this is Nemegusa's first serious relationship and he's barely an adult in university. And he *is* an overthinker lol.
Even with his issues he still puts energy into maintaining the relationship. He isn't "only" overthinking. He's trying.
Agreed. I think they need time apart right now. It's an essential choice in order for them to grow as individuals and prepare them before re-committing into the relationship. It's true that Nemu is still like a baby when it comes to having and maintaining a relationship but you can see that he is trying his best to keep things together even with his limited experiences let alone about "men to men" types of relationships. Maya is no different too. Even if we consider relationships he had before being with Nemu, he still lacks an important factor when it comes to relationships. He doesn't know how to connect with his partner on an emotionally deeper level and is unable to communicate his feelings to Nemu or openly talk about issues in the relationship that needs addressing. As shown when he crudely dismissed Nemu's question as "Something you shouldn't be bringing up/talking about".
I do think that is understandable for someone like Maya, the type of person who always got his way and had previous relationships being more about the physical aspects rather than emotions. I do think he has grown quite a lot in that compared to the first episodes. But I think it's an issue along with Nemu's insecurity that both parties still need to improve on if they want this relationship to actually grow and flourish.
Excellent take on Maya!
haha thanks!
I just hope this obstacle isn't too big for our boys to get over and won't be swept under the rug with a simple "resolution" like saying "I love you". I mean sure that certainly helps but that still won't address the issue just like that. ╮(￣▽￣)╭
Like what the fuck!!!!! His dad even kicked him out of the house because he's gay and he's working his ass off so he can earn a leaving and you are thinking those stuff because...???? He loves you so much and yet the only thing you do is overthinking shit!!!