Sis, this isn't right. You need to drop that person ASAP!!! That's not a friend, it's a toxic person. A true friend would stop hurting as soon as you tell them to. They wouldn't continue, that's just wrong on many levels. Friends don't talk down on you, they're suppose to encourage you. Friends are supposed to support you, not hurt you physically and emotionally. I hope you can find the right path with this person and pick what's best for you. But take my advice as a stranger, this person (from what you've written) will drag you down and will not do you good in life.
thanks. i really needed this. (●'◡'●)
sorry to hear that mate
there could be three possible reasons for her behaviour:
1) she, for some reason, thinks youre inferior to her and is treating you as a lackey of some sort
2) its all a joke from her side, shes super comfortable with you and she thinks youre ok with her showing her 'true' side because she thinks you 'know' shes just joking
3) she hates you and is trying to be passive aggressive but more agressive
i suggest you ask her upfront about her behaviour, and youll know whats going on depending on her answer
No problem hun, I wish you nothing but the best~~~~
It's very disturbing. Something is definitely wrong with her. Abusive relationship is never okay, stay away from her. Dislike her, hate her, whatever, you need to protect yourself.
If I were you, I would slap that bitch ass for making me feel so bad like that. People around you never abused/bully you like that, so who gave her permission to do that???
It's not OK. ┐(ﾟдﾟ┐)
lmao this also happened to me. just like what u did i also shrug it off cause i dont wanna "over react" but ofc i got fed up cause i told her to stop but she just kept on doing it. so i cut ALL the ties between us. days later i found out she has been acting like that cause apparently the guy who she rejected months ago likes me now lol i guess her ego got hurt. GIRL YOU BETTER DROP YOUR FRIEND'S TRASHY SELF.
I JUST WANT YOU TO KNOW, is 'kay to not immediately hate her if you decide to end things and to feel a bit of guilt. yall have been friends! yall at one point had a good mutual feeling about each other so i just want you to know that you dont have to act like a "bad bitch" and put on a "idc" act if it hurts, bc hunty, that's just natural uwu
but something like this is honestly not a good sign ;-; it's best if you avoid physical contact with her bc pinching someone, your friend in this matter, to the point of bleeding is beyond messed up and NOT friendly teasing especially when you didn't take it as a friendly act by telling her to stop
(me and my friends call each other p mean things or insult each other all the time as jokes but it's MUTUAL and we'd tell each other if something we said hits too close to home so that we'd avoid using that subject as a joke in the future)
but yeah uwu have a serious talk to her if you wanna and if she seems like she doesn't care then, welp. put in as much effort as she does whether it be none to little or to a lot. because trying to keep one alive when it's long dead is frustrating and you can trust me on that one osdhfos
*inhales* ok, so,
my friend ( let's call her Elle) has been acting strange. it started about 2 weeks ago. elle has been one of my best friends. recently she's been hurting me and i don't know how to deal with it.
it first started with hurting. it used to be just teasing like nudging each other, but now she's been pinching me really hard when she got annoyed with me, to the point where it started bleeding. i told her to stop doing that so she did.
then she started making random remarks about me. calling me pimple face, telling me my hair looked horrible, yeah y'know that stuff. i'm a pretty chill person so i just ignored it at first. but then it got worse. the pinching started again.
i told elle to stop again but she told me to stop acting all innocent and cute in front of her. she's been also excluding me out of a lot of things and when i try to press and join in, she just glares at me or makes another remark. most of these things i've just brushed off because i'm pretty chill, but it's slowly building up.
then she started taking photos of me and laughing at how stupid i look. i told her to stop but she just thought it was funny. one of my other friends (let's call her anna) anna saw elle taking photos and privately asked if i was ok with it. i was not. i told her i was fine.
ahhhh i'm so frustrated! i dont know if i hate her or not. ty for listening to my pathetic rant ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~