all i remember is that the seme suggests using a blindfold during sex and the uke starts freaking out/panicking because he had a bad experience with blindfolds. (seme does not know this until uke starts panicking)
the bad experience was that he would go along with anything his ex (not the current seme) wanted in bed, mainly all BDSM related kinks. one day, his ex blindfolded him and he was fucked, until the blindfold was taken off and it turned out to be someone else fucking him and his ex said something along the lines of "you're such a slut that you couldn't even tell the difference" or something like that
this probably happened like mid-story, besides that i don't remember much else.
Not sure but:
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/saturday_s_master/
this isn't useful but like i feel like we read the same thing. did u read this on Bato?
i remember the uke had black hair and seme was brunette/ginger?(not hard boiled love)
plotwise, I remember they meet online (not guild member nextdoor) and like when they meet up they shortly get into like a relationship and bdsm is brought up. i recognised what you said about the ex because in this bl the ex was this blonde lady that was hella toxic and left all these carvings on uke's pelvis as 'bdsm' and made him all hesitant about that kinda relationship w the new seme.
i also recognise that blindfold scene in the one i read . tbh they were very healthy bdsm-wise and i really adored the petplay they had. like i remember seme would collar him during play and call him kitty since uke is kinda like a wet cat alot of the time.
anyways, i've never been able to find it because the author only ever uploaded it to bato since webtoon would take it down and lezhin and tappytoon both wouldn't pick up their work. after bato was taken down, i lost the author's account and i never took any screenshots of the manhwa so i can't reverse image search anything. hopefully i added more info for anyone who knows the name. (i think it was called 'something' limit but i can never guess correctly when i google it)
all i remember is that the seme suggests using a blindfold during sex and the uke starts freaking out/panicking because he had a bad experience with blindfolds.
the bad experience was that he would go along with anything his ex (not the current seme) wanted in bed, mainly all BDSM related kinks. one day, his ex blindfolded him and he was fucked, until the blindfold was taken off and it turned out to be someone else fucking him and his ex said something along the lines of "you're such a slut that you couldn't even tell the difference" or something like that
that's all i remember for now. it's a manga
the cuteness aggression tail grabs are so funny