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Idk, guys. Back in 2019-2020, when we made a dirty joke about a manhua or manga, we’d all just laugh about it. Nobody took things so seriously. We’d comment without overthinking, say whatever came to mind, and just have fun. No wars, no crazy people. it was such a chill time.
Why is everyone so easily offended or too horny nowadays? Wtf happened to this community? Is this a new generation thing or what?
Honestly, I think it is a new generation thing. A lot of newer readers seem pretty young, and some of them get offended really easily and start fights over nothing. Then there's the other group acting all superior with the 'tradfujo' persona when you can tell they're like 12. I'm not hating on younger readers, I was one when I got into this stuff. It's just that the vibe is different now.
So overall I think it’s just a lack of maturity on all sides lol, though I don’t think the manga/manhwa community has changed that much. People are just more open about their opinions/views now
my theory is that when bato went down tiktok spread this site to a bunch of people used to tiktok comments. No evidence to back this up and idk what tiktok comments are like i've just heard theyre not the most pleasant but yeah everyone feels on edge to be the most morally correct person every time i ask a question it feels like the answers are just a war of who can be the most morally superior. I'm just tired man i feel like i've lost my comfort site cause its not how it used to be at all.
sorry for the lack of punctuation i just woke up.
i feel like the whole internet is like this right now it's super black and white. you're either a perfect person or you've given up and the only other group just says anything they want and dont have any empathy whatsoever. sorry for ranting i've just been super bummed about it lately cause this has been my safe space for so long.
Here's a short answer:
1. Hormonal teenagers
2. Normies
3. Different idealogies/cultures
4. Lack of etiquette
5. Trends(or social media like Tiktok)
Thank you all. The thing is, I think what bothers me most is that I feel increasingly distant from those simple moments of sharing joy and entertainment with other people. I miss when communities could just be fun and spontaneous people making dumb jokes, sharing their excitement, talking about a scene they liked, and not taking everything so seriously.
I don't mind people being open about their preferences, and I enjoy those things too. But lately, it feels like the fun gets lost underneath negativity, arguments, sexualization, and people getting offended over the smallest things. Even when I leave a completely harmless comment or share an opinion, I sometimes come back to a bunch of dislikes and don't even understand what I did wrong.
Maybe that's why I feel uncomfortable now. It's not that I suddenly stopped enjoying reading manga/manhua. I think I just miss the simplicity of enjoying them with other people
Just wanted to share this with you all, love you guys :)
literally! Also it feels like everything i post i have to make sure it it cant be offensive in anyway possible which i know this is a crazy complaint but my alpha-san lore actually got so deep but i was too scared to post any of it cause i knew people would be like dont joke about x y or z. I feel like I'm trying so hard to be a good person and it's still not enough. I used to be able to take a break from the world on here but it feels like the world crept in
Yuri is like soju. you start drinking, thinking it’s just water, and before you know it, you’re drunk out of your mind.