This story gets creepier as it goes on because of how easily you can become involved with people who have similar characteristics to the stalker, whose absolute disregard of boundaries is a common trait of abusers. He deflects blame onto the main character by saying he could've done something sooner if he really wanted to get rid of the stalker and keeps pressuring him to get renounce all personal boundaries (while consistently and forcefully crossing them).
The stalker denies the main character's feelings when the main character states he wants the stalker out of his life.The stalker constantly normalizes his behavior by continually doing it until the main character expects it and by stating that it's ok for the stalker to do it e.g.'it's no big deal' and calling the main character a 'little baby' for crying after being sexually assaulted. The stalker of this story is a perfect example of an abuser IRL (even when not taking the stalking into account).
This story gets creepier as it goes on because of how easily you can become involved with people who have similar characteristics to the stalker, whose absolute disregard of boundaries is a common trait of abusers. He deflects blame onto the main character by saying he could've done something sooner if he really wanted to get rid of the stalker and keeps pressuring him to get renounce all personal boundaries (while consistently and forcefully crossing them).
The stalker denies the main character's feelings when the main character states he wants the stalker out of his life.The stalker constantly normalizes his behavior by continually doing it until the main character expects it and by stating that it's ok for the stalker to do it e.g.'it's no big deal' and calling the main character a 'little baby' for crying after being sexually assaulted. The stalker of this story is a perfect example of an abuser IRL (even when not taking the stalking into account).