1) Assuming my gender (Yes, I'm saying that. On the internet.)
2) I'm complaining because a lot of young people read these manga and use them as a reference for real life romance. I understand that it's supposed to be a fantasy, but I'd rather indulge in the fantasy of a loving relationship, not an abusive one that erases the victim's personality and excuses the abuser's behavior. It should be obvious what this teaches inexperienced readers.
First I would like to point out that yaoi are supposed to be read by people 18+. Second let's take this manga for example. After reading it someone may have a lovely sexual fantasy about a spirit (of his favorite gender and appearance) starts caressing him at night while he is in his bed and kissing him and making love (ohhh juicy masturbation material). Now imagine this happening to the same person IN REAL LIFE ->>> ShitPants is the correct answer? Why you ask? Because yaoi same as fantasies are a controlled environment, and as I said so many times in other comments in these mangas there is the real rape which is similar to real life rape that as in real life is an act of control or revenge and we (as the mc) hate it and there is the fantasy pseudo rape that is actually the passion that unlocks the heart of the uke (and has nothing to do with reality). Is the same as fantasising about a ghost lover and actually seeing a ghost. No relation what so ever
It's gross.