I don't agree with you, but if the fandom is ruining the series for you, it might be a good idea to just disengage from MHA-related social media and keep up with the manga/anime on your own.
Kind of passive agressive to say its okay and people can ship who they want, but in the same paragraph call the fabdom trash because of said ships. Either way, no one's making you stick around. If ships (for whatever reason) are causing you that much grief, then its better to just keep up with the source material and distance yourself from the fandom. Other people will have their fun and you can still have yours
Just act like I do, avoid the fandom, filter the content you want to enjoy
Trust me i try ignoring the fandom but its literally shoved in your face all over social media if your an anime viewer. And people can ship who they want but when i dress up as bakugou and a minor deku literally licks my face and gropes me then theres a problem. I didnt explain fully but thats why the fandoms trash. Its full of minors acting inappropriately and even adults acting the same way.
Thats gross and completely inappropriate, regardless of age, but its still an issue of those specific people being dicks than the ships themselves. I'm not going against disliking certain ships, it just doesnt seem fair to paint such a large group with the wide brush of assholes like those.
For the content, the best advice I can give is filtering. Unfortunately, with the way social media is set up its difficult to completely avoid fandom things you don't want to see (for example I see Endeavor content way more than I ever want to, as well as DekuOcha though I can deal with that a lot more). Blocking and blacklisting tends to help to some degree, but it is hard to escape the content completely.
You are completely correct that i should paint the whole fandom in that light so i definitely will correct that! Thankyou for the recommendation i will try that next time so i can filter my feed more!
As much as i love shipping and shojo and yaoi i cant stand the "power couples" and ships in this series. Idc if voice actors approve, i dont care if the majority approves. I just dont see the potential in these ships other than friendship and a few romances like ochako and deku which is made to be obvious...the fandom is highkey trash now and it make me hate this series. That being said everyone can ship who they want, imo most are just wrong, make no sense, or are toxic....