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I agree with your reasoning. However, the reason why I hate her is because she considering what's best for him although she didn't care before just like the rest of the house. Those kind of hypocritical actions just rub me the wrong way.
I'm with you
Honestly, I don't think the head maid should be getting all this hate. From her perspective, it makes sense for her to want to keep Alejandro and Ibee apart since they have completely different social statuses. It could cause Alejandro a lot of trouble down the line if people find out that he's in love with his maid after all.
I'm not saying that her behavior is right, I'm just saying its completely understandable. The head maid wants to do what's best for the Dukedom, and she believes that Alejandro and Ibee's relationship will only cause more problems down the line.
Now, do I think she could have gone about it a different way? Yes.
Going behind Alejandro's back like this to try and convince Ibee to do something about their relationship -- when it's been mostly Alejandro seeking her out -- is a bit of a wrong move. Not only will it piss Alejandro off, but it's not like Ibee is in a position to deny Alejandro anything, considering her status as a maid. If the head maid wanted to really put a stop to this relationship, she should have talked to Alejandro first. Not that it would have done any good considering how head over heels Alejandro currently is, but it would have been a smarter move.