Yes, if you want to have wrecked adults later, you force your kids to give up their dreams. After years of telling them that they can be anything they want and to follow their dreams. No matter what.
Or you are good parents who want to have happy offsprings and support your kids. In any situation. That's what good parents do. Children should be able to try out and develop. And when, against all odds, the kids fail. Simply be there for them. Pick them up and help them try again.
Yes, if you want to have wrecked adults later, you force your kids to give up their dreams. After years of telling them that they can be anything they want and to follow their dreams. No matter what.
Or you are good parents who want to have happy offsprings and support your kids. In any situation. That's what good parents do. Children should be able to try out and develop. And when, against all odds, the kids fail. Simply be there for them. Pick them up and help them try again.