Not sure is the other links popped up, if they didn't here ya go ( They are bl)
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/incidentally_living_together/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/10_years_where_i_loved_you_the_most/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/december_rain/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/sora_o_daite_oyasumi/, december rain (▰˘◡˘▰)
Supernatural Tragedy: http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/hatsukoi_losstime/
Extreme Slice-of-life Fantasy:
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/sousou_no_frieren/
I may not be too helpful but I hope I could put a couple on your list??

Can someone recommend a super tragic and sad manga with a good life lesson? If it ends super depressing then even better I wanna cry tonight lol