Just bc ur doing smth for someone else doesnt make it right. Also theres a limit to how much u can impose and he literally raped him. Ppl have a right to be indecisive and its arrogant for him to assume that he knows best. Also was it rlly for the uke's benefit or was his personal feelings involved? Its obvious that he wanted the uke and that's his main priority.
Though the seme was imposing it was definitely for the uke's benefit. I never said anything regarding the rape because it doesn't matter the case that's wrong. However everything else was done to save the uke. His ways of doing things won't be beneficial to anyone not even himself. His divorce was one of the things that his indecisive caused him. Continuing on his current path won't be any different for his mother or daughter either. He was right about one thing though... he wasn't paying attention to his daughter and the same goes for everyone else around him. This is due to him always having to hid himself. He's constantly looking over his shoulder if anyone noticed his preference. In the long run he will be pushing away everyone ge claims to love because he can't love and fully accept himself. And hiding behind his daughter isn't for her sake. I've seen this too much in my career that child ad she gets older will only burnout.
I'm not even gna finish reading that bc ur first sentence completely ignores what I said. It doesnt matter whether or not u do smth for someone else's benefit. If its unwelcome, its harrassment. A murderer can say he killed to save other ppl but that doesnt make it right. Who gave him the fking right to make those decisions? That's called entitlement and arrogance, not kindness

Am I the only one in this comment section that things the Uke is the problem here. Yes the Seme is pushy but he's doing it for the Ukes's benefit. The uke is all knlind of messed up emotionally and mentally with his outlook on life. He buries himself in being a father and hides his true self which impact his work and relationship with the people in his life to some extend. The seme is only trying to get the uke to see that it's okay to put himself first and not hide who he is. The uke with his Indecisive attitude got more on my nerves than anything else.