I read through some spoilers and I can't remember it all but I do remember this though.....
- Violet does end up with Yulan and not Maryjun, even though Mary tries and Violet is conflicted at first.
- I don't think she lashes out at her dad or the rest of her family.
- From how they made it sound, Yulan and Violet's Maid (I can't remember her name) are sorta yanderes???
Someone has since organized the spoilers better since I went digging through the site a few months ago and I don't have the time right now to look through it again.
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https://forum.novelupdates.com/threads/i-swear-i-won%E2%80%99t-bother-you-again.75733/

anyone got any spoilers?! it’s a musttt. ╥﹏╥