I HIGHLY RECOMMENDED APORIA FOR HEALTHY BDSM!!
Hmm my partner's tastes and fetishes is not that healhy imo :/
Reallu?why not? there is aftercare and they talk about what is fine and what is not and they both enjoy it too...
No they didn't talk about what specifically is fine and what is not. (Emphasis on *specifically*). The only ground rule that was properly established was just "when i dont feel like doing it anymore, ill use the safeword". Even that ground rule is vague. At a separate time, the dom and sub should go EVERY detail related to bdsm. Normally, before any activity is done, they should discuss what aspects and subjects are totally good, negotiable, non-negotiable, boundaries, and limits.
Also, in bdsm, you just dont come up with rules on the spot while the play is on going. The sub was obviously a newbie on bdsm, and his dom should properly educate him about the things to be expected at a separate appointment. You just dont go slap the person and say "oops i forgot to tell you i can hurt you all i want for sexual pleasure, just say the safeword if you dont like it". Nope. The sub didn't even have a say on that.
And just because they're both enjoying it, doesn't automatically mean it's healhy ┐( ˘_˘)┌
Well, if you have questions about bdsm, you can ask Squibbles. She’s a bisexual dom with 10 years experience
http://www.mangago.me/home/people/181308/home/
Oh ok I get what what you mean. thanks for explaining!!
I recommended that coz its far better than the majority of bdsm yaoi available..
Yup yup. But overall your rec is actually good tbh :>
Ohhh i totally suggest that you read Aporia!! Its so healthy that it's refreshing HAHA but its kinda on the slow paced and angsty side :>
I have! And I am really invested in that story!! I hope it will update soon...
Any healthy yaoi that has like spanking or bdsm? Please NO Rape or sexual assault or really gross age gaps (like teacher x student). ヾ(☆▽☆)