It's pretty hard to change your perspective on life after dealing with so much crap. I feel for yashiro.
You're clearly ignorant on how being raped can damage you in so many ways.
Wow, way to slut-shame a rape survivor. You need to rethink your shit opinons on Yashiro.
I guess he was abused as well from his stepfather when he was young. I think the original post means you should seek for help if you're rape-abuse victim, and that's right. But unfortunately if you're 30 something male I don't think you will find help that easily. Anyway, if there is abuse-rape case it's best to seek professional help, tho most of rape victims don't report nor take an action.
"Some shit happened..." Sigh. He was repeatedly raped by his stepfather and it started when he was in elementary school, so not just as a teen, as a small child. And the man didn't just rape him physically, he verbally shamed him as well, twisting what was happening in a way that was designed to warp young Yashiro. And there's his mother in the next room, the person who is supposed to protect him, and she's sleeping away. And she basically abandons him in his teen years, only leaving him money now and then. It's so glib to say he should just go get therapy, like telling someone about it will fix it after all of this time. Male victims in particular are less likely to seek help. Who exactly was he supposed to tell? To lean on for support? He was alone.
Yashiro suffers from rape trauma syndrome and this is a coping mechanism. It's not promiscuity so much as it is a compulsion. (Note where he says "My switch got turned on.") It offers him a sense of control. He is the one asking for the harsh treatment of the other men. He had no control over what his stepfather did. But now, by saying "I want this done to me," it's a way for his psyche to take ownership and a semblance of power back. Even though Yashiro asks to be hurt, wants to be made to feel bad, in the end, he is the one retaining power. "I asked you to hurt me but you couldn't break me." Each encounter could be seen as him psychologically flipping the finger to his stepfather. "You thought you could break me? Look at this. This guy is worse than you and I'm still functioning."
He clearly hasn't let go of his past. He's still grieving for the kid he was. He has no real support system. This is what he has to do to stay relatively sane.
And a "good yakuza"? Really??? Like that would be a better lifestyle choice? He hates that he had no other path to follow! Did you really read this thing?
I enjoyed reading this... I didn't notice that he was abused even when he was a little kid tho, you know which chapter?
He mentions it over and over. Like he does here, to Doumeki's sister:
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/saezuru_tori_wa_habatakanai/mf/v01/c002/45/
And here's a full flashback to his stepfather raping him, pages 12, 13, 14:
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/saezuru_tori_wa_habatakanai/mf/v01/c008/12/
Why all ou you are being childish...fuck off,this is clearly my opinion of it damn it...if u don't like keep scrolling.I thought I was free here to opine what I feel,is that so wrong not to like something damn it.I SAID IT...HE IS JUST A SLUTTY WHO LIKE TAKING DICK,U ARE MO LONGER A KID JUST BUCKLE UP AND FIX YOUR FUCKING LIFE. POOR DOUMEKI WHO IS GOING TO TAKE UP AS ASS WHO HAS BEEN FUCKED BY THE ENTIRE CITY.
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Then are u saying that all survivor raped kid should be like him...have a messed up life.well well good,so many kids survive rape but after through therapy, love,friends,parents they did not get so messed up.....so by fucking all the guy around the city is a better way to get over itplease fuck off..I have right here to opine whatever the hell I want
Mind your damn business...kill me for what I think and believe
Goid for you....but I can't
Good for you....but I can't
Then you are a horrible person. And that is just my opinion, which I am also entitled to express. Bye!
Yes communist...bye
You can also read this which has more of his backstory - http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/tadayoedo_shizumazu_saredo_naki_mo_sezu/
Nobody's saying that, you moron. Everyone handles trauma differently. Promiscuity is a rare but unfortunately real reaction to rape.
And Yashiro's parents abandoned him and he had no friends. So who was supposed to love him and support him through all of this? Get off your moral high horse. Get a little perspective and gain some sensitivity.
you are so fucking ignorant that is almost amusing.
have you ever been raped and abused through your entire childhood or know anyone that has? No. then shut up. When you grow up like that, you start thinking that is you are gonna been seen as a sexual toy for everybody at least you can take ownership of your body and fuck the people you want, after all is just sex and you had learn that sex has nothing to do with feelings or love. the very least you can do is use it for some form of advantage or placer
Get off my back already.....can u please leave me with my own fucking opinion.Moron,thank u for calling me that Oka-san or should I say oto-san,cause u clearly know me.Communist
Communism? is that supposed to be an insult? try better. if you make a comment you have to be open to a respond, is you don't want people replying to you then just stay quiet.
For nit having the same opinion I guess that made me a moron.....i really don't see why u r on my back for some things I didn't like in the story.what the fuck,thank u oka-Sama or oto- Sama for lighting up my mind DuhI fucking hate SLUTTY UKE
Damn he doesn't even need to spread his legs like that....I know some shit happened when he was a teen but he should have tried changing his life,fighting to be a better man or a good yakuza but no he has to make every single man in the world put their dick inside his hole...poor Doumeki,I just hope that he can actually fall in love with him and stop messing around...if not he won't be able to enter the sea cause his hole will swallow up all the waterjust saying