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Unfortunately . It sickens me to my soul when there's a bl or any genre tbh where the one of the love interest was a parent figure. Like, isn't that grooming??

I agree, this just reminds of yuri and his teacher's relationship

I think the author is trying to show relationships in reality.

THE TRIFECTA OF A GOOD STORY . Got any recs? (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

like omegaverse ??

Yeah or anything for that matter. I always looking for something new to read!

BIG AGREE they both need to settle down and talk, have a LONG talk. that’s truly it. But if only relationships and feelings were that easy

It might not be his fault entirely only if he's willing to talk

Yohan wanted to settle down and talk... Mugyeong didn't. That's the issue here.

Yohan wanted to talk things out about his issues with his boyfriend because he has every right to as his boyfriend.

Mugyeong spend all his time with his sunbae even though it's not about school. He prioritize his sunbae over his own boyfriend which is truly ridiculous ! As for instance, Mugyeong's taking calls from the sunbae when it's late at night when the sunbae invite Mugyeong to watch a movie he didn't say "talks later" because he's spending time with his boyfriend... NO... He is planning to go when Mugyeong clearly was spending time with his boyfriend and made his boyfriend waits for him in their own couple times just for now planning to watch a movie with another guy than his boyfriend right in front of his face. Yohan is always the one who's waiting in their relationship. Yes if it's for school that's totally fine but beyond that bro... Just cut the call politely and prioritize your time with your boyfriend when you can have it.

Mugyeong clearly takes Yohan for granted. If Yohan did this to Mugyeong I don't think he will take it as well as Yohan did. Yohan have every right to feel insecure about how Mugyeong treats him. That's a big red flag how Mugyeong is treating Yohan right here.

It will not be his fault if he was willing to hear what Yohan have to say and if Yohan was being overly sensitive and pushy even though Mugyeong hear him out and Mugyeong did exactly as what they agreed to as a solution with Yohan...
then I would say he would not be at fault which was not how it happen in the manwha.

Mugyeong dismissed Yohan's insecurities/feelings and even threatens him he would be angry if Yohan talks more as well as restricting Yohan's actions even more... when Yohan only wanted to resolve together the issue he thought their relationship have.
Mugyeong is clearly at fault here. If I were Yohan I would leave Mugyeong's ass if he treated me the same way he did to Yohan. Bro if you don't even try to hear your partner problems/insecurities/feelings and don't want to communicate to resolve things together then what's your relationship for?
What really pissed me off here is the way Mugyeong takes for granted Yohan.

This made me tear up
Their 7 Years of Relationship clearly downgraded the importance of Yohan in Hyung's mind . Because this little puppy was always there for him . Mugyeong is his first and only priority but not the other way around.
It's Yohan who's the giving party. I sure even after all this shenanigan , it will be him who's gonna apologize for misunderstanding first.

they’ve been in a relationship for seven years of course mugyeong would get angry if yohan is once again bringing up other people and being insecure it’s probably very irritating to keep being questioned and having to reassure an insecure person

We don't see Yohan bringing up often other people though?
But even if he did with how Mugyeong prioritize other people more than what Yohan can have then there's a problem. As for instance Mugyeong prioritize his sunbae over his boyfriend is this not suspicious behavior ?
I mean yeah Mugyeong is naive and wants to be respectful but did he really have to keep the call of his sunbae when he was clearly spending time with his boyfriend. Bro have no boundaries after seven years of relationship.
What's different to be Mugyeong's boyfriend if the only difference is sex ?
Yes for school it can happen but bro is planning to go watch a movie with another guy late at night when Mugyeong and Yohan clearly was spending time together... Bro gives a lot of time for his sunbae but gives the leftover for Yohan. I would be insecure too.

The worst part is that Mugyeong doesn't even give a chance for Yohan to settle down and talk.
Like what's the point of a relationship if you can't share your issues with your partner. Yeah Mugyeong is not his therapist but at least try to listen to your boyfriend concerns on your own relationship before giving your take on the situation and call it ridiculous. If he's insecure after seven years then there's a problem on your relationship.
Yohan seems to be the only one in this relationship. We never see Mugyeong gives something to Yohan. Yohan is always the giver here.
Mugyeong need to wake up because he clearly take Yohan for granted after seven years of relationship.

I would also be tired, angry and frustrated to have my feelings and insecurities being dismissed by my partner after seven years of relationship too.
If Mugyeong should have the right to feel angry about Yohan often bringing up other people after seven years then Yohan has every right to feel dismissed by his partner for seven years.

Mugyeong is not the only one who should be fed up here. Yet Yohan always put up with Mugyeong because he loves him.
Mugyeong should figure things out with Yohan but he clearly put him on the side just because he thinks it's ridiculous for someone to fall for him. Yohan have to figures out a solution for two by himself like no... That's not what you do when you're both dating each other.
Yohan only needed reassurance. If both of them sucks at communication then even seven years of relationship means nothing. No progress, no resolving things together.
If Yohan needs reassurance after seven years of relationship then there's something wrong for the both of them that they need to sort it out together. We never see Mugyeong hear him out and try to set boundaries. No instead of that, after seven years, Mugyeong take every call of his sunbae, agree to watch a movie with his sunbae even though Yohan and mugyeong were still going for it and then Mugyeong call this situation ridiculous because he thinks he'll never attract someone and his fed up about Yohan's insecure feelings so Mugyeong don't want to settle down for a one on one heart talk so he's forbidding Yohan to never brought it up again. Yohan can't do it on his own. He's not dating himself.
Yet Mugyeong put Yohan's insecurities/feelings on the side of the road of course in the end Yohan would develop unhealthy habits.

Mugyeong never take seriously Yohan's feeling when Yohan try to have a one on one heart conversation. Mugyeong have suspicious behavior but he isn't even aware of it because he don't want to hear Yohan's reasons for being insecure which is totally valid by the way.
Mugyeong don't know what boundaries is. He is a pushover and in top of that naive. He can't set boundaries when he has a boyfriend even after seven years...

I would also be troubled and insecure with someone who can't set boundaries and can't even hear me out for seven years.
It takes incredible confidence in yourself for letting your partner agree to watch a movie with the same person that they would always mentionned about when you were in middle of something together in the middle of the night without even worry about your partner's feelings after seven years of relationship.
Yohan would really be overconfident in himself for not being insecure about it.

What was really mean of Mugyeong is how he takes Yohan for granted just because Yohan loves him.

He missed calls from Yohan when he's with sunbae but never missed a call with sunbae when he's with Yohan.
He always mentioned sunbae names praising him when he's with Yohan but was scared to have the same cologne as Yohan (when it was a present from him) when sunbae figures out how he wears a different cologne as usual. Like why do you care so much about this when Yohan isn't attending the same school as you!? Yuri is the one who is in the same school. Why do you care so much about it? Yet with Yohan the only thing you can talk about is your sunbae and you never ever missed a call for your precious sunbae when you're on a date with Yohan smiling a lot on the phone when you never smile at your boyfriend because you were too engrossed to talk about your sunbae even though you couldn't even bear the thought of sunbae figures something out with Yohan and you.
Bro... Like Yohan have every right to feel jealous and neglect by his boyfriend. Yohan only have the leftover. Who's really Mugyeong's boyfriend here?

Mugyeong needs to wake up if he doesn't want to loose Yohan... Yet I know how Yohan loves Mugyeong so he would never leave Mugyeong that easily... Which is the truth that hurt me for Yohan. He needs to leave before he begins to break and have unhealthy habits/issues.

imma be real with you bruh, i’m not reading all that the story was just updated and you obviously care about mugyeong being in the wrong wayyyy more than i care about both of the characters

typing out essays this is a comment section not a blog post

First of all yes as you said this is a comment section so I think that everyone is free to right "essay" or not. Is there's a specific rule that forbid writing long comment ?
I'm sorry if it makes you uncomfortable to read because I didn't prioritize the "summary aspect". I don't like responding that way because I am not good at being concise without loosing the meaning of my points.

Yet if you didn't have the heart to read my reply then I'll give it a try.

Firstly I do understand your point of view yet I think that if Mugyeong have the right to feel angry about Yohan's constant insecurities/feelings after seven years of relationship then it's totally right to say that Yohan also have the right to feel dismissed and neglect emotionally by Mugyeong for seven years.

I understand you want to stay neutral. However in Yohan's point of view his insecurities about Mugyeong seems valid for a lot of reasons that is showed in the side story :
• Mugyeong missed Yohan's call when he is with his sunbae but doesn't missed any call of his sunbae when he's in a date with Yohan.
• Keep answering the call of his sunbae for agreeing to go watch a movie when Mugyeong clearly was spending time with Yohan.
• When Yohan wants to settle down and talk, Mugyeong dismissed him.

In Yohan's point of view this situation that he is right now totally validate his insecurities. Would you feel at ease if your partner always mentioned their sunbae to you and answer every call of this sunbae when he's with you when they missed your call? Would you feel at ease if the same sunbae called your partner in the middle of the night for finally watching them agreeing to watch a movie cutting off your time spending together just for this bullshit ?
Yohan insecurities doesn't steam from nowhere... Mugyeong clearly is a pushover and on top of that he is naive which makes him more easy. Mugyeong can't set boundaries with other people because he doesn't think he's attractive which upset Yohan's feelings.
Mugyeong is clearly at fault here. Yes Mugyeong being angry is valid for Yohan's behavior but it doesn't mean that it makes what Mugyeong's do valid or the right thing to do.

I hope it's not too long for you again. I tried to cut it short.

Also I wanted to clarify some things before you may think a possible possibility that I'm obsessed to put you down just because you don't agree with me. This is not a personal attack or anything like that... I just wanted to have a discussion and in no way I want to personally attack you or everyone who don't share the same opinion as me.
I know I am pretty heated when it's something I like or is invested about. Sorry if it gives an aggressive impression.
I am very interested with why you think I only care about Mugyeong being in the wrong as if I was taking obsessively a side when you are clearly justifying Mugyeong's behavior towards Yohan as me who's justifying Yohan's behavior towards Mugyeong ?
I would also assume that you're only worry about one character from your replies and not the both of them.

It's great that you can have this objectivity and have a mature insight on this.
For me I couldn't say that I worry for both of them after the side story. It's just a matter of preference. It may be immature but I can't deny that what Mugyeong did to Yohan didn't pissed me off.