Yaoi and shounen ai where the uke has a crush on the seme so like unrewuited feelings at first but then the seme had a gf or something and had the conclusion that he does like the uke and they breakuo and get together with the uke type a shit
this but the opposite http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/itsuka_koi_ni_naru_made/
i'll put out here, from someone who is part of the lgbt community, to stop fetishizing gay relationships. I've seen plenty of people commenting on shounen ai mangas like where's the smut, why is there no sex scene. GAY RELATIONSHIP IS NOT CENTERED IN SEX. WE ARE NOT OBJECTS. ISTG ITS FRUSTRATING. Atleast enjoy the story and stop asking for one, its uncomfortable. Go read yaoi or something wtf.
Like not everybody does that and some people know that is what I meant
One time me and this girl she reads yaoi and ships every two guy characters so I naturally thought she liked gay too and one time I was with one of my friend and he has a boyfriend we were together I invited her cause we were having fun and i thought she wouldn't "mind" their relationship but guess what she walked in on my friend kissing his boyfriend and she was like www. and I was just lost for words like some people like yaoi but you know yaoi is for you guys to have a better view of them right if you don't like normal LGBTQ you shouldn't read watch yaoi nor yuri or ship every two guys you see and when they become a thing walk away ( ̄へ ̄)
I get your frustration

does anyone know this bl manga where the uke always joins this cross dressing contest in their school outing (?) every year and the seme i think saw him as a girl and didnt recognize him at all until he was called out by one of their univ friends??
I don't think this is it but " Boy meets Maria"