beta
user Purky (comment below me) said this, but bottoms saying "you're the first one I've had butt sex with" IS purity culture. it's so odd seeing this shit in (what is essentially) queer art because it's so conservatism coded. there's also the issue that bl as a genre is mostly made up of straight women as artists. idc what anyone says, as a queer girl it's obvious to me that a lot of plot points in bl genre is straight women living out their romantic fantasies through gay guys.
so the indoctrinations and misogynistic concepts like purity culture, masculine-feminine stereotyped relationships, heteronormativity etc bleed through; whether it's intentional or not. can you tell I've got a lot to say about this lmao