If he loves you he is going to make an effort. Trust me. Best you can do is talk to him about it. If he brushes your hurt feelings off like that and doesn't make an effort, he isn't worth your time. 1 reply
This may be a slightly less popular opinion but I will give my 2cents as a queer man. If we are talking yaoi specifically : There is always something fetishistic about smut. Shounen ai? Generally less sex focused, so there is a less of that in my experience.
And yeah you can argue that "its written by fujos who get off to gay porn and fetishize gay...... 1 reply
Truthfully, I was exposed to yaoi very early. Maybe like 12 or 13. I will try and keep myself short:
I feel like ppl under 13 (oh what a hypocrite I am) shouldn´t consume sexual content as a form of pleasure or something. I feel like at that age you shouldn´t even think about sex. As a general rule of thumb I always say that if you can´t handle ...... 1 reply
Not giving a shit about society and what other people perceive you as will make you so much happier. In the end nothing matters, so do what you want. reply
Everyone is different. When I was younger I would sneer at the mere thought of relationships, kids and marriage, but as I became older I grew more and more fond of the idea of marrying and having a family. Mainly because I found someone I really really like and have been dating for almost 6 years now. Relationships are so much more than just love a...... reply
