We engage with BL like we engage with fantasy and romance in general. A lot of it reads like an idealized, impractical fantasy similar to the rom-coms of the early 2000s. We live in a rape-apologist, nonconsensual, fat phobic, patriarchal culture so we expect that it diffuses into almost everything we consume tbh. Women are not exempt from gynephob...... reply
did give life advice
