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I’ve honestly been really confused about my sexuality for a WHILE. So I was like might ask others their opinion.
So I’m honestly rlly confused because I find men and woman attractive but the thing is I never really want to do anything sexually with them. But I don’t think I’m asexual bc honestly I love os so I’m like what the hell.
Literally any help I’m begging like I acc don’t know
just say bi-curious
I am the same in the way that I am attracted to women but I don't want to have sex with them but I am not asexual
I have gone on the internet to find out why and this is what I have found (this may not be completely correct and there could be other reasons)
-being exposed to porn at an early age
-some kind of trauma relating to sex (ex:sa)
-hormonal imbalance
-shame about having sex or masturbating(ex: cultural shame around sex)
-anxiety
I think you're still asexual. Bc asexual doesn't mean u have no sexual desire AT ALL. U can look it up on Google what asexual means. Some asexuals might have very low sexual desires too. Honestly if u still don't feel comfortable labeling urself as asexual, just don't label urself. U don't have to have a word to describe urself. I personally think ur a biromantic asexual. I hate labels tho so I'm still encouraging u not to focus too much on the labels and just live
Maybe you’re demisexual, means you can only have se x with someone you have an emotional connection. So no one night stands
Yeah. Like they said, if you want, you don't have to label yourself.
I was actually confused about whether to label myself pan or bi, since ever since I was a kid, I already have some sort of attraction to both genders. I once identified myself as gay, though, since I tend to be attracted to guys. Even though, I also liked girls. Yeah, I just thought gay was the term, even though, I knew bi existed. I dunno what I was thinking. I only learned about the term pan, years later.
Although, as I grew up, I don't really know anymore. I think I'm a bi, since I have a preference for guys. But I also think I'm a pan, since there's a part of me that doesn't really care about gender.
I heard bi people isn't just limited to girls and boys, and pan can have gender preferences too.
But still, I don't really know. I just don't feel it's one or the other. But if someone had to ask, I would say I'm a pan. So, yeah! But really, I think labels don't matter much.
Welp, I saw this again and thought I should answer, in a different way.
Well, I call myself a pan, but I wouldn't want to have sex with someone. At least, I prefer not to, but it's not like I'm against sex. But I can still have sexual or romantic feelings for anyone, even if I don't want to have sex with them. That does make sense?
It's up to you what label you want to use. But personally, I think feeling attracted to someone doesn't mean you have to have sex with them.
I could identify as panromantic, pansexual or both but I don't think my attraction is limited to romantic or sexual feelings. So, I'm just a frying pan. Hehe~
Not saying pansexual or panromantic is just limited to sexual or romantic attraction.
=~= I just realized I've been lingering here for too long, sorry! I think it's fun to share what I think about this topic.
Well…. I relate to 4 out of 5 of these so that’s probably why :D
THANK YOU tho (づ￣ ³￣)づ
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How To Survive As A Player (Yaoi)
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/how_to_survive_as_a_player/
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I’m kinda confused it’s clear that yujin still loves him (had his movies and CONSTANTLY thought about him) but if his dad isnt the reason he left why did he? Honestly thought that was it or is he scared of trusting Aaron. Side note I love how they’re both blatantly lying about fxcking other ppl it makes me giggle.
idk i think yujin is just lying to aaron about his dad not being the reason, as an attempt to get aaron off his ass and “protected” from his dad but it’s clearly not working so
he lied. I think it was his dad and other stuff. he is afraid to love because ppl leave. He thinks what his dad said about him is the truth but its not. He is not bad luck.