some people do, some people don't. I personally read bl that has little to no smut, and I really do enjoy the plot. Even for women who do read a LOT of yaoi, a small amount of them fetishize gay men. I think your friend doesn't understand the true meaning of fetishize. As long as you keep yaoi in your own world and don't enforce it on real gay men,......
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did liked someone i shouldn't like
