A part of me just want Namu to stand his ground and talk to Maya but at the same time I understand why it’s hard for him. #1 he loves maya so much and is afraid of ruining things by bringing up sertain topics and #2 if I’m quite honest maya has not been very open to talk about these feelings with Namu in the past. It’s hard for me to say “Namu just talk to him!” When you know the reaction maya will give is most likely negative based on everything so far. But keeping the conversation with Ruka a secret is not good, and I feel if he started his talk with “he admited he’s in love with you..” maybe they could get somewhere...but I feel doom no matter how the conversation is started.
I really can’t enjoy when the seme treats the uke like crap for the majority of the manga...it just leaves me feeling bitter. Idk how long this is going to go on but we better get some serious redemption..this is not only the things he does to the uke but how he thinks about him which is not good at all.
I don’t mind playboy seme...just why is it ALWAYS the seme you know?
I don't know what you mean most of the time what I see is whenever the uke is the one who loves sex and is a playboy everyone starts screaming "queen uke" and stuff but even if he hurts the seme people most of the time people defend him but it's completely the other way around for semes, I only see double standards there.
I guess we see only what catches our attention. It's not like readers are an united front, so I'm sure both reactions exist. I've seen a lot of people complaining about "slutty" ukes if they are very sexually active with multiple partners. I've seen similar reactions to semes, to "slutty" isn't usually used to describe them. But I'm sure what you're describing also happens in the comment section. I just haven't happened to run into thar, or I've ignored it.
For whatever it's worth, I think anyone not in a committed monogamous relationship is allowed to have as many partners as they want and feel comfortable with. They have to be responsible about it, take their partners' feelings into account and make sure they're safe, but the behaviour is perfectly fine, be it seme, uke, something in between or a straight person. Sex in itself shouldn't be considered dirty or negative.
So true like wth? It's always have been unfair to seme. Just cuz they're usually the dominant one doesn't mean that they can't get hurt. And although most people liked ukes more, I actually prefer seme more. It's an exception with this manga tho cuz the uke is just very cool.
And slutty ukes or queen ukes are fine but I usually am not into them. Some mangas even show those slutty ukes having sex with other people.
Taking for example Karasuma from Kurui naku no wa boku no ban:
I personally think that the two main characters should just f*cking talk it out and gather their courage. And although some people justify Karasuma's way of getting to the top by having sex, there's literally another way, u idiot! U just gave up so soon to know what talents u have and how to make benefit with them! I personally thinks he's a coward.
After all, humans are tougher than we think we are. We have the ability to think so we have to make good use of it. Duh
Does he:
1.make excuses to touch you (such as pretending to be sick) and/or not miss a single chance to hold you in his big and strong arms?
2. Does he listen to your every word like a loyal puppy?
3. Does he protect you at all cost? Even when you are doing something as simple as jumping down from a fence?
4. Does he kiss you to make you stop talking?
5. Does he not hesitate to throw a punch if it means protecting you? Even if it’s people he shares a room with?
If you answered YES to any of these questions, CONGRATS! He has a crush on you! Now go get your man!