Tsukkin's Questions (51)

I can relate, but i'm more of like unsure whether to enter a relationship or not. So here i am inexperienced since birth becaus ei also feel that there's something wrong, like if i think about it. Is this person the right one for me? Or am i the right one for him? But really is just all goes down to what can i do to make this relationship last and strengthen it? And when i think about how i think about things right now, uhhh maybe not....i might unnecessarily hurt this person, i'm not mentally ready to commit so. If you already are in a relationship maybe try? And if it's really not working to the way you want to see your future, then let go.

Not pathetic at all. Wisdom comes from weird places sometimes. I feel really qualified for this question, I'm a fellow spinless jerk that can never EVER be truly satisfied with any decision. I swear I still think about how my life would have been different if I didn't spend like 30 dls on churros 10 winters ago. Here's a nugget for you: significant others DON'T EXIST. It's brutal, I know, but the sooner that sinks in, the better. All people are shit. Getting better at relationships comes when you know more about *yourself*, not your partner. Learn about your limits, likes, kinks, deal-breakers and needs. If your current partner isn't cutting it, say so (be gentle!) and talk about adapting to each other and give it another go. There's no deep secret, communication is what it's all about.

http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kyuuso_ha_cheese_no_yume_omiru/

http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/sojou_no_koi_wa_nido_haneru/

thankss

I just finished reading this one
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/our_previous_existence_this_world_you_and_me/

http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/allure/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/nemureru_hana/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/sono_kuchibiru_ni_yoru_no_tsuyu/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/omerta_kochou_no_yume_no_kate/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/bokutachi_futari_ga_koisuru_riyuu/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/croquis/

Its not really tear-jerking but it is about B getting married and A being cosoled by C
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/close_the_last_door/

uhh I think seeing a doctor wouldn't be so bad.

Do nothing for an hour.Settle down ...Quiet down,you'll know what is wrong with you.
But for sure, I can tell you it soon will end too . :"D
No worries! Hang in there, strong-hearted one♡

If you feel bad enough go to the doctors but you could be just in a depressed slump relax for about a day sleep on it and the next day force yourself to do something you might feel better

Take a Break from your Work/Studies for a while and just have a chill day at home! Indulge in your hobbies to have a peace of mind!

Hope you feel better soon!!

this has been me all year this year because first yr of uni has been really stressful and competitive. i've broken down so many times due to the stress but honestly, my #1 advice is to let it all out. after crying i usually feel much better. then i talk to my friends/family about my problems and they're usually very comforting and i feel better after talking to them :) rely on others around you. there's also the option of watching anime or reading manga or doing anything you love pretty much! you dont have to be alone to endure the things you're going through. also talking to a doctor is not such a bad idea!! doctors are really empathetic and are good listeners and will do the best they can to help you (i want to be one, explains the stress of this yr haha). or it can be as simple as talking to people online tbh :) its great that you even posted it on here! anyway feel free to talk to me whenever!! i'd love to help :D

Just cry until you feel better. Take a break from work and feel free to do what you want.
But, when you find yourself destructive and not functioning in any aspect, on't hesitate to seek help from friends, counselors, and psychologists.

If it lasts longer than 2 weeks, seeing a doctor is a good option.
Is it like constant, or are there moments you feel better? How about sleeping? Physical symptoms? You may want to check out the list of depression symptoms. Don't ignore it.

Don't worry, you're not crazy, many people go through the same. There's nothing to be ashamed of. If you need to talk about it, find someone trustworthy and empathetic.

Chill, relax and listen to music.. It'll hopefully sooth you down :)

if you can go somewhere, anywhere for a day to empty your head.

and just for this day just relax and don't think, if you can call a friend to complain about everything, cry.

and if you think you need to go see a doctor then go, it helps a lot of poeple but don't think you sunod crazy, it happens to everyone o be depressed, so try to relax, okay?

I think it's pretty constant, i cried almost everyday, even when i'm not thinking about sad things and lately i have insomnia, i can't sleep easily like i used to

Same with me, i've been struggling with college this year. Thanks for the advice btw

Thanks for the advice everyone!! It really helpful, now i'm feeling better than before

So these are some of depression symptoms. I'm not a specialist, I won't tell you if that's it, but it's reasonable to go see a psychologist (or at least a GP), especially to do sth about your insomnia - it only makes your condition worse.
In depression you don't need a reason to cry, it's just a state of your brain. It's not like you choose to be this way.
Also take vitamin D (D3 + K2 would be preferable) as it's a natural antidepressant.

If you need to talk or want to know more you can send me a message.

Omg thanks really, i think i should go to psychologist but first i need to talk with my parents about this ╥﹏╥

You know what? Get hyper!!! Drink all the coffee you have. Watch sad movies until you cries bucket!eat sweets,candy and ice cream until you sick of them.watch horror films in the late night with your trusted friends and scream until your lungs break. Play your favourite songs and dance like crazy in your bathroom.
That's how I relief stress sometimes.(๑•ㅂ•)و✧

No problem. Yeah, talking to your parents would be good. The worst thing is to keep it for yourself, it won't take you anywhere. And it's better to act quickly, when you still want to do sth about it.
Remember, you're not alone. There are many people who care about you and will help you. And this can happen to anyone, it's not your fault.

It looks fun the way you describe it, thanks!! I'll try later

Seriously you should do that. It really shows that " I'm STRESS!!!!! FUCK OF PEOPLE!!!"
hahahaha.alright .hope you feel better soon. ε=ε=(ノ≧∇≦)ノ

Maybe you should try Nukoduke ? Or Totsukuni No Shoujo ?

Thanks but i've read that ┗( T﹏T )┛

I want to see it so much

http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/shimanami_tasogare/

http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/tsunagaru_koi/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/hana_no_mizo_shiru/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/konbini_kun/

The first manga came to my mind was Omae wa Hitsuji~ I really love it

OMG yes, I forgot about that one, its so cute

Yess it's totally cute and fluff ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ

Oooh I want in on this too.

Have you tried silver diamond

or super lovers
or http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/komatta_toki_ni_wa_hoshi_ni_kike/

http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/asterisk/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/moon_trick/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/jinjuu_houretsuden/

Thankssss

Thanks a lot!!

Find something in common to chat about. It's best to find a common ground to talk about and further extend from there.