Hello, OP. I've read your question and most of the comments here. I'd like to tell you a little bit of my story.
I'm 26 now, and I came out as gay 12 years ago when I was in middle school (before a lot of things changed including marriage equality in the US).
Ever since I was a child, I would always fall in love with male characters I saw on TV. ...... 4 reply
Why do you feel small and inferior? Trust your emotions and your intuition. If you feel it's different - then it's different. There is clearly something to explore here, regardless of the outcome. So if you feel like your entire being is drawing you towards this person, then honor that and reach out to him. Always make decisions from a place of emp...... reply
Koori No Mamono No Monogatari. I felt very real and intense emotions reading this one. I cried both during the sad times and the happy times.
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/koori_no_mamono_no_monogatari/ 1 reply
I'm gay, and I read Yaoi not only because I enjoy it, but also because it's one of the few genres that showcase gay romance and sex. Representation is important.
But to answer your question - no. Reading yaoi as a guy does not mean you are gay. In fact, it makes me really happy to hear that you read about and appreciate gay romance even though it...... 1 reply
Hmmm this is a difficult one since there are a lot of different traits I find attractive. But based on my tendencies and fantasies, I'll list a few:
(from a gay male's perspective)
-Taller than me (I'm 5'5'' - not that difficult lol)
-Dark hair (really long or short. I find both looks attractive)
-Muscular build/healthy (I place a major value on h...... reply
