The sister maybe hot but she is the biggest creep and red flag in the story for me...she will do things...tht are soo..yikes
No matter how hot or something he is...i really cant get over this dude is still acab...a hypocrite one...do gay shit but will jail others if they do gay shit..ughhhhh
Am i really ace ??...if this is normal couple fight (which it is)i dont think i can handle it..even just reading it is mentally exhausting...so having irl im not sure if have want to deal with it T.T
As a person who is a gray asexual, do you mean aromantic? Bc asexual peeps still have romantic relationships.
Also, it might be more to do with an avoidant attachment style rather than anything to do with asexuality or romanticism. Tbh I doubt anyone wants to have these types of fights, however to completely bar off relationships just bc of possible conflict (that hasn’t happened yet) does sound a bit like avoidance
27y somewhat gray/demi asexual in a romantic relationship here
It really depends because sex isn't something in my mind most of the time cheating isn't really either, I've come to realize that alo people are more worried about cheating than ace do
My boyfriend is not ace and he doesn't get jealous but we have great communication.
But from previous relationships I can tell that doesn't mean a jealous person won't cheat on you
What I mean is people are different and relationships are different but if being in a relationship tires you it's a bad one and it's better to break up.
This relationship here is not realistic both are kinda toxic me too would be tired if I had to worry about something like that in a relationship
I dont know what direction this story is gonna go and im afraid to ask....
i suspect it's probably family drama
Im getting frustrated...just break up i guess...he was the one demanding explanation..top is opening his heart and soul to you and you just shut him down like tht...thts an awful thing to do to someone trying to open up..yes, his wording was shit but couldve atleast let him finish...the communication was there maan...yall couldve finally understand shit but noooo
i used to root for mc..but now..i dont like any of them..
esp. mc having this..victim blaming rapey vibes going on...
Except it really isn’t. Sure, Yeesu proposed a deal contingent on topping Jihyung, but it’s not like he was backed into a corner. He could have turned it down with no personal or financial repercussions at any time. The stocks offered up also weren’t something he desperately needed, just a valuable asset. Yeesu stopped and verbally confirmed that Jihyung wanted to continue 3 times after he initially agreed. He even offered to give him the stocks for nothing, but Jihyung is the one who was insistent on continuing. He was fully sober and not under duress or threat, and consent was verbally confirmed 4 times. He didn’t exactly enjoy it, but again, he chose to try out bottoming.
As for victim blaming, I agree that someone being an asshole is no excuse to assault them, but that’s not what happened here. It’s more of a role reversal if anything. Jihyung treated their serious relationship casually and ran off with a woman without so much as a word of explanation or a breakup. He did whatever he wanted without really considering Yeesu’s perspectives or feelings for their entire relationship.
Yeesu was devastated by the betrayal, but has moved on, and now Jihyung has come crawling back. His affections have dried up, and he’s no longer willing to play the doormat. Jihyung is the one trying to reconnect with the ex he discarded and still has hard feelings about it.
yeah no...but there are times the ex had bleeding in his bottoms and they just glossed over it..and with the fucking lines "he is the one that wanted this, why is he acting like im forcing myself on him" IS NOT A LINE anyone wants to hear..thats why i said "victim blaming VIBES" ...im not saying mc is a demon but the direction they are going made me stop rooting for him...
agreed
Yes, it's definitely a line that no one wants to hear, but it was still the truth. Regardless if Jihyung was bleeding and crying or not, Yeesu did not force him. Jihyung essentially forced himself to do it to the point where he ended up getting hurt. He should have stopped right there and just taken the deal that Yeesu offered with no strings seeing as how Jihyung was having a hard time bottoming. Yeesu really could have inadvertently done damage to Jihyung's backside and possibly caused an infection. At the end if the day, both of them are to blame. Both should have stopped when Jihyung started to become injured. It was very stupid and reckless of the two.
thts why i keep saying..its "victim blaming V-I-B-E-S" ..he is not victim blaming straight up..but still feels like it..especially i agree ..from the dick injury bleeding and back side injury bleeding..he did not stop and not really dwelled on those alarming stuff..tht why i stopped rooting for him..and why i dont like any of them anymore..
I do see your point
My point: There are no V-I-B-E-S. A vibe can only exist when even a miniscule of a molecule is present. Which I saw none. My opinion. Not yours.
"vibe noun (MOOD)
the mood of a place, situation, person, etc. and the way that they make you feel"
VIBES IS NOT OBJECTIVE , its something tht makes ME feel.. and NOT what you can measure ..its backed by dictionary not "opinions" :))
damn he rizzed his workmates, the mother and son too..
dude got serious game lol