Why is she treating a 20 yo like a 10 yo? Yeah 20 is young to be a parent, but he wants the child and he wants to be with the child's father.
It's the side characters chimming in and over implicating things. Like the best friend telling ml to sod off and leave mc alone a couple chapters back, which, of course was purely altruistic because the best friend definitely didn't want to fuck mc. Sure mc is a little slow, but he's an adult, dammit xD they're way too invasive