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Lizzie January 23, 2024 7:35 pm

Do not come for me, but anyone got recs for het smut comic with a controlling asshole guy like in The Beast Within? I feel like reading trash tonight

Squibbles July 19, 2021 1:04 am

I'm looking for a slow burn BL like Here U Are, any suggestions?

    ♡HaeRim♡ September 14, 2023 9:16 pm

    If you go to my profile, I suggest you the ones that I've "already read" a lot of them are amazing (nice artstyle, nice plot, nice character development, very sexy/cute/green flag uke/seme/vers!!!! I really recomend them you to read (if you didn't already) (=・ω・=)

    Thanx ♡♡♡♡

Squibbles June 30, 2021 10:43 pm

I'm in the mood for some dark or toxic BL. I've already read the more popular ones (Killing Stalking, Painter of the Night etc.) but please give your recommendations!

Squibbles June 24, 2021 8:56 pm

Looking for a nice, dramatic slow burn BL like Here U Are, Hidamari ga Kikoeru and Jazz for Two

Squibbles June 4, 2021 3:13 pm

A good enemies to lovers please!

Squibbles March 16, 2021 7:49 pm

So can we now agree to gatekeep this site from TikTok pls? So many cloutchasers sharing the site like damn, what did you think was going to happen?

    Redrose March 16, 2021 7:51 pm

    Yeah agree. They are so annoying for me.

    Akari Himari March 16, 2021 7:52 pm

    on twt and tik tok has hashtags of the site :/

Squibbles January 27, 2021 6:46 pm

Anyone have any recs for yaoi where the top is an asshole and the bottom ends up walking away and the top has to chase him?
(Already read BJ Alex)

    Anonymous January 27, 2021 6:57 pm

    Hate mate
    The god of pain's groom
    Hina wa mitsuiro

Squibbles January 18, 2021 6:10 pm

I want a yaoi with a DADDY seme. Like a big, rich, dominant daddy seme, kind of like Director Kang from On and Off. Any recs?

Squibbles January 5, 2021 9:19 pm

Considering there's so many depictions of BDSM in various manga with some... Creative liberties taken when it comes to the depictions themselves, I set up this account to answer any questions about BDSM ppl might have. Feel free to ask anything, I accept PMs as well. I'm very passionate about combatting misinformation about the lifestyle and I've helped more than one people get started with getting involved in the scene themselves :)

I'm a Dom myself with 10+ years of experience in the scene so I've seen it all, at least almost

As for how this is related to manga, it's to directly combat harmful depictions in manga and/or discuss them. It's okay to enjoy inaccurate manga BDSM, but it's also important to know the realities of actual BDSM relationships.

(Also I'm trying not to get restricted here so if you haven't, read this manga called "Love Nest". It's not BDSM but I loved the slow burn romance! http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/love_nest_minaduki_yuu/)

    queerqueen January 5, 2021 9:30 pm

    In your opinion what are the best bdsm manhwas' you've read

    Squibbles January 5, 2021 9:33 pm
    In your opinion what are the best bdsm manhwas' you've read queerqueen

    Hmm well... Thing is, "best" in this case doesn't coincide with "most realistic". I enjoyed BJ Alex even thought it had some waaaaaay red flag stuff. I also liked Private Lessons, it had some sketchy stuff, especially at first, but the dynamic was the closest to a realistic one I've encountered

    superlocococo January 5, 2021 9:39 pm

    There’s a lot of hitting, to the point of punching the face sometimes to the stomache in bdsm webtoons. Is it fine as long as the sub doesnt say the safe word?

    Squibbles January 5, 2021 9:45 pm
    There’s a lot of hitting, to the point of punching the face sometimes to the stomache in bdsm webtoons. Is it fine as long as the sub doesnt say the safe word? superlocococo

    Okay, so the practice is called "impact play" and it usually means hitting either with hands or objects, such as whips or paddles. Oftentimes, the hitting is done with an open fist, so it's mostly slapping. I've slapped my subs before, usually to the face/chest area/genitals/butt - only with clear and pre-agreed on consent though.

    However, impact play isn't everyone's cup of tea and it's something you very clearly discuss and agree on beforehand. Before I engage in impact play, I need to know where they want to be hit, how hard and using which equipment.

    Hitting with a fist is generally very inadvisable because there's a risk of doing some serious damage, breaking bones or causing a concussion. I know it happens between some pairs IRL who want to take it to the extreme, but it's not common because it's so risky. If both parties know exactly what they're getting themselves into, consent to the act and know the risks, deciding knowingly to take it, then yes, hitting with a fist CAN be alright. But really, I wouldn't advise anyone to bring straight up punches into it, especially to the face

    ɪsᴀᴀᴄ⁶⁹ January 5, 2021 9:49 pm

    So umm how did u actually know u were into BDSM,I myself for a while now been confused feeling that I'm into it but not sure about it,.
    (Sry for my bad Eng)

    Squibbles January 5, 2021 9:55 pm
    So umm how did u actually know u were into BDSM,I myself for a while now been confused feeling that I'm into it but not sure about it,.(Sry for my bad Eng) ɪsᴀᴀᴄ⁶⁹

    I've known since pretty early adolescence that I'm not into gentle or vanilla sex so to me, it was kind of a natural slide from rougher sex to straight up BDSM. There's no limit to how much you have to be into it, some people just like some handcuffs every now and then, some people enjoy a roleplay here and there. Just listen to yourself, stick to what makes you feel nice/what's comfortable to you and go with that :)

    ɪsᴀᴀᴄ⁶⁹ January 5, 2021 9:57 pm
    I've known since pretty early adolescence that I'm not into gentle or vanilla sex so to me, it was kind of a natural slide from rougher sex to straight up BDSM. There's no limit to how much you have to be into ... Squibbles

    Thank u so much,. "(♡

    queerqueen January 5, 2021 11:40 pm
    Hmm well... Thing is, "best" in this case doesn't coincide with "most realistic". I enjoyed BJ Alex even thought it had some waaaaaay red flag stuff. I also liked Private Lessons, it had some sketchy stuff, esp... Squibbles

    could you give more information about other different manhwas'

    Squibbles January 5, 2021 11:46 pm
    could you give more information about other different manhwas' queerqueen

    Thing is, I've read almost 800 different yaois so I can't remember nearly all of them and I haven't read any BDSM themed manhwas in a whiiile. I might go digging later if I have time

Squibbles January 3, 2021 7:05 pm

I'm a hoe for drama, so anyone have any yaoi recs where the top cheats on the bottom/refuses to go exclusive and only later realizes he's in love with the bottom and has to try and win him back?

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