sorry but this isn’t really cheating to me and yall are gross as fuck cursing this victim for being a victim. if yall don’t understand what’s happening just say that.
uhh i agree with not cursing sooyeon for having been manipulated and introduced to toxic bdsm by gyeol but at the end of the day sooyeon DID cheat? He went to gyeol to satisfy his sexual urges which he couldn't have with yoonho? but he did regret it when he saw the ring and wanted to stop. He was a victim AFTER gyeol refused to stop but let's not act as if sooyeon didn't cheat...
not when his sexual urges were caused by years of manipulation from the very person he “cheated” with
the manipulation did not stop with the poorly practiced bdsm. he is still being manipulated, that kind of conditioning doesn’t just leave you magically.
i agree that at the end of the day gyeol is a manipulator and forced his sadism onto sooyeon from very early on and kept doing so for maaaany years but sooyeon did cheat when he decided to go to him when he could have at the very least break things up with yoonho when he deemed him unable to satisfy him. But i agree that sooyeon is also a victim so i do hope he gets proper help and gets away from gyeol
that literally was not even in his mind until he was being assaulted. this is what i’m saying, he is manipulated. it does not come and go. cheating my fucking ass.
but it is still unfair for the person that is being cheated on? we can not excuse someone's actions because of their condition but we can understand it US as readers yet it is still betraying yoonho's trust that he put into sooyeon ? i dont really get whats the idea behind trying to excuse sooyeon cheating with his trauma its like saying "oh its not cheating cuz its the only way to release himself due to trauma" did we forget that it can be both at the same time??? it IS cheating AND years of manipulation from gyeol. But to each their own! i just dislike people being rude to others for their own pov of things
that’s not really what i said but ok
have a blessed day
tbh yes he cheated but there’s so much nuance to it (manipulation, then full blown SA) that people wanting suyeon to die/get serious injured are absolutely too over the top… like you can physically react to SA but that still makes it SA….
this is just incest fetish porn at this point let’s be honest
100%
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literally what the fuck? this writing is absolutely awful. i understand the temporary affection during sex bc of the state his mind was in but this is when post nut clarity kicks in and he books it out of there. this is out of absolutely nowhere and makes no sense.
That's why I will read the novel to understand this story better after my exam
why are you freaks so obsessed with characters switching it’s so fucking weird and fetishy