Can everyone pls take their time to read
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/it_s_not_that_i_want_to_wear_women_s_clothing/
It's a shounen ai manhua about this boy who has to wear women's clothing to work bcs his boss gets sick around girl. It has a lot of comedy and cute scene. One of the best bl's I've read
I'm the dumbest person on earth so can someone please explain to me what's the meaning of the name "love is an illusion".
I already read it but I still don't get why it's called like that
uh maybe cuz...
the uke got into heat with the seme, They had sex but...
....it was just for the sex and they never really had anything like love involved in the sex? because it was just the pheromones? And the uke getting into his heat? So they acted as if they WERE IN LOVE but they weren't..
**Therefore their love was an illusion?**
That's the only explanation I can think of...
I'm here to complain about my life again lol since I basically live here rent free.
I have this friend that I've known for 4 years. She is 3 years older than me. She's one of my 4 irl friends since I don't like talking to ppl irl face to face.
We hang around once a week or once every 2 weeks since she's busy with school work and has a other friends than me but we text almost daily.
She's fun to be around with and I'm really grateful that she's here for me.
But she always takes everything (like jokes for example) waaayyy to seriously and sometimes hurts my feelings without knowing. She always blames me for stuff that I clearly didn't do or something that we BOTH agreed to do.
I always try my best to support her but she sometimes pressures me to do things that I don't want to (nothing illegal) and doesn't listen to me and doesn't care about my opinions. I'm always there for her when she has issues with her family/friends/life but when it comes to me when I want to talk about my issues she always tries to make it about herself and changes the topic.
I sound like a horrible friend and I'm trying my best to ignore this feeling cause I'm scared of losing here cause then that mean that I did everything in vein.
Okay sorry about that I'm literally talking to myself. + I'm having huge mood swings bcs of my period
I have a friend like this but we only hang out every so often so I can put up with his attitude.. but your friendship is toxic.
That girl isn’t your friend, your someone she uses to vent her problems to and to feel good about yourself. The rebound friend. I suggest you distance yourself a little or at least bring up these problems.
Tbh I think you should talk to her bc she might not be aware. A true friend will respect your discomfort and at least try to change. If her response is bad then you can cut her out of your life.
Since she’s three years older then you, I don’t think she views you on the same level as her other friends.
Definitely talk to her. Keeping these to yourself is really bad and it’ll definitely come out eventually when you don’t want it to.
I'm sorry, because I'm totally like your friend and you combined. I listen and talk to other people, constantly ask them if they're okay atleast once a week, and etc. When people talk to me about their situation, I want them to know that I've been in that situation too and I'm trying to relate with them, through my own experiences. Because that's honestly the best thing I could do, idk how to properly engage a whole conversation, they have their problems and we have ours. I'm doing that because I want to be helpful not because I want everything to be about me (in me and my friends case) I help cheer my friends up, by changing the topic (ofc after we had a conversation about the said topic) so I can remove the bad memory from their system. If you stay too long on the issue, you're just going to be depressed more, so I usually change the topic to something more happy and try to break their problems piece by piece.
The huge difference, probably is that I talk with my friends about my true feelings towards them, if I felt like they wronged me, even if they really weren't. I'll tell them the things I don't like when we talk and we find ways to solve the issue, usually there's no issue to be dealt with but just me and my brain creating misunderstandings. What I'm saying is, they probably want to help you, but maybe they're not helping you in ways you want to be helped by. Everyone has their own way of helping( my other friend would instantly tell me to watch a movie with him, and I'd feel better at the end of the day) so maybe talk it out with her, and see what happens. if she leaves or becomes cold and distant then drop her, treat yourself like how a person should treat you and don't stick around people who just uses you for their own emotional baggage. Friendship is about people supporting other people, teaching other people and loving other people. Don't stick around if you know they can't be your person.
If you cut things off with her, nothing was in vain, because you didn't lose anything. They lost you, and if you stick around even after finding out their true emotions for you, then you're just wasting time honey. Best of luck. Fighting!
Uh also the jokes thing, I suggest not doing it anymore because some people are just like that. You can't change them for that, if she feels offended with any jokes no matter if it's only a joke for fun or a laugh, if she feels uncomfortable then don't push it. You can bond through other ways anyway.
It seems like you already did your best to be her friend though. Find something else for you to get busy, busy enough to excuse yourself from her if you don't want to see her. Also, don't engage yourself in any form of agreement with her unless you're sure to hear her promise you that she will be responsible for the consequences if it ever fail. Make sure to not offer her some agreements too. Her offer = her idea = her responsibility. About your opinions, it matter. But if she don't want to listen to you anyway then don't waste some efforts unless you have to. Lastly, minimize your support. You're not responsible for her life. Lending her your ear, shoulder, time, and presence are enough. Let her figure out her own life.
Just avoid getting entangled with what you don't like about her as much as you can.
Alphas can't impregnate betas right?
I read liai a long time ago so I can't remember
It depends on the authors, in some renditions of the verse they can’t but others like https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kashikomarimashita_destiny/ they can
Heyy so I want to get into yuri so can someone pls recommend me a good story (something fluffy and spicy like cherry blossom after winter for example). Something that would get me hooked. Something under 80 chapters pls. Omegaverses are fine. Thank you <3
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/sadistic_beauty_side_story/ ongoing, 15 ch
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kill_switch/ ongoing, 12 ch
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/handsome_girl_and_sheltered_girl/ completed, 13 ch
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/relationship_guidelines/ ongoing, 42 ch
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/blooming_sequence/ completed, 77 ch
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/hate_me/ completed, 5 ch
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